REB REFOEL BERGMANN Z.L.

TODAY I DO NOT VALUE LIFE AND ACHIEVEMENTS  AS I DID WHEN I WAS YOUNGER.
YOU GET OLDER, DIFFERENT THINGS BECOME IMPORTANT TO YOU OF THE PICTURE OF WHAT YOUR AIM IN LIFE IS.
I TRIED TO EXPLAIN  THIS TO SOME PEOPLE LAST WEEK WHEN I SAW THE PAGES IN THE JEWISH TRIBUNE " TRIBUTE T0 REB REFOEL BERGMANN ".
I USED TO TALK A LOT WITH HIM ESPECIALLY WHEN I DAVEND IN 95.
REB REFOEL BERGMANN UNDERSTOOD THAT ALL THE POSITIONS IN THIS WORLD
ARE NOT IMPORTANT, HE USED TO SAY,  " THAT IS NOT WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT".
THE SAME WAY WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO A YOUNG CHILD ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO AN OLDER PERSON.
I AM SURPRISED WHEN THE FAMILY OF A PERSON WHO HAS PASSED ON
THINKS, IT IS IMPORTANT TO THIS PERSON WERE HE IS BURIED IN THE CEMETERY, OR WHO WAS AT THE FUNEREAL OR HOW BIG THE NOTICES WERE IN THE PAPER. THESE ARE ALL STUPID VALUES.
REB REFOEL HAS PASSED ON AND THERE THE VALUES ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT TO THIS WORLD.
I OFTEN USED TO TALK WITH REB REFOEL,
AND HE USED TO SAY TO ME "G=D HAS BLESSED ME WITH A SPECIAL MIND ".
 YOU UNDERSTAND AS YOU GET OLDER THAT THE REAL PURPOSE OF LIFE AND THE THINGS  PEOPLE CARE ABOUT ARE UNIMPORTANT.
IN THE FIVE PAGE TRIBUTE TO REB REFOEL  Z.L. HE UNDERSTOOD THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE FOR EVER AND THE HONOR HE HAD HE USED WAS TO JUST TO GET AS MANY PEOPLE POSSIBLE TO BELIEVE IN G=D AND SPREAD YIDISKEIT.
ONE OF THE THINGS I USED TO TALK WITH HIM ABOUT WAS THE PEOPLE IN 95
EACH ONE TRYING TO SHOW OFF. I AM MORE THEN THE OTHER ONE,
BIGGER WEDDINGS AND BAR MITZVAHS ETC, ETC.
HE USED TO SAY TO ME I AGREE WITH YOU,BUT IT IS  A WASTE OF TIME, THEY ARE STILL LIKE LITTLE BABIES.
THE ART OF LIFE IS TO BE WITH THEM AND AT THE SAME TIME ABOVE THEM. 
 HE SAID," I HAVE B.H. LEARNED THIS, YOU HAVE THE BRAINS AND B.H YOU WILL LEARN THIS TOO ". 

HARAV CHAIM HALPERN SHLITA

HaRav Chaim Halpern Shlita is alleged to have groped intimate parts of ladies' anatomy on multiple occasions.  

IF IT WAS ON MULTIPLE OCCASIONS,  HOW COME THEY WENT BACK ? ? ? 
In addition, he is alleged to have indulged in sex chat and texting with these ladies.

I WOULD LIKE TO SEE AND HEAR THAT CHAT AND TEXTING THE LADIES MADE TO HIM ? ?          

 He made a commitment to stop doing this - and then allegedly carried on doing it.
TO WHOM DID HE MAKE THIS COMMITMENT ? ?

If these allegations are true, it was not a mistake. There was no ignorance, no misunderstanding, and no forgetfulness.
WE ARE NOT GOYIM NOT EVEN IN GOLDERS GREEN WE DO NOT TREAT PEOPLE LIKE THIS                                                  

if these allegations are true, he did it all to satisfy his callous sexual desires and he treated those women like the mud on his shoes.

YOU REMIND ME OF A STORY.

A WOMAN OF NINETY WALKED INTO A POLICE STATION AND SAID SHE HAS BEEN RAPED.

THE POLICE ASKED HER WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN ?

SHE ANSWERED SEVENTY YEARS AGO.

THE POLICE ASKED HER  " WHY HAVE YOU COME TO REPORT IT NOW ?"

SHE ANSWERED THAT SHE LIKES TO TALK ABOUT IT. 

So are these allegations true?          YOU KNOW THE ANSWER  NOW

THIS IS WHAT I WROTE IN JANUARY OF THIS YEAR.

LAST WEEK I HEARD IN STAMFORD HILL THAT B.H. RABBI CHAIM  HALPERN SHLITA HAS BEEN COMPLETELY CLEARED BY THE POLICE.

THIS LEAVES EGG ON THE FACE OF THOSE FIVE RABBONIM OR MORE IN GOLDERS GREEN AND HENDON AREA.( SOME IN STAMFORD HILL )

I THINK THE FIRST THING THEY NEED TO DO IS OPENLY APOLOGISE TO   

RABBI CHAIM  SHLITA AND IF THEY DO NOT 

THEY NEED TO BE SUSPENDED FROM THE UNION, OR FEDERATION,

UNITED SYNAGOGUES OR EVEN THE REFORM AS THE TORAH TELLS US IN

DEUTERONOMY 19-19.

THEN SHALL YE DO UNTO HIM AS HE HAD  PURPOSED TO DO UNTO HIS BROTHER; SO SHALT THOU PUT AWAY THE EVIL FROM THE MIDST OF THEE.
THE LAW COURTS CAN LEARN FROM OUR OLD TORAH.
AS THE LAW OF THE LAND DOES NOTHING TO THE PEOPLE WHO TRIED AND 
PUT TO SHAME A RESPECTED RABBI IN OUR COMMUNITY,
BUT WATCH THIS SPACE AS NOTHING GOES UNPUNISHED BY G=D.
IT ONLY TAKES A LITTLE TIME AS IS WRITTEN:
AND THE JUDGES SHALL INQUIRE  DILIGENTLY IF THE WITNESS BE A FALSE WITNESS, LIFE FOR LIFE,EYE FOR EYE, TOOTH FOR TOOTH, HAND FOR HAND, FOOT FOR FOOT.

LETTER PAGE

THE  PEOPLE WRITING TO THE JEWISH TRIBUNE  "LETTER PAGE"
ARE  EVERY WEEK  THE SAME.
PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SHOW HOW MUCH THEY KNOW. 
THIS WEEK MR B SHAW IN " MIND THE GAP "
JUST COPIED EVERYTHING OUT OF A SEIFER. HE HAS NOT TOLD US ANYTHING NEW, JUST THAT MR SHAW, WE SHOULD THINK IS A VERY FRUM MAN.
JUST FINDING CRITICISM EVERY WEEK ON THE FRUM JEWS.
IS THAT THE PURPOSE OF A LETTER PAGE ? ?
I SAY YES.  WHEN THE EDITOR OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE IS A B.T. ! !
IF YOU WANT YOUR LETTER TO BE PUBLISHED  JUST FIND SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE FRUM COMMUNITY AND YOU WILL GET FRONT PAGE COVERAGE.
ALL THE NOTICES FROM THE ROV AND RABBONIM AND
 NO NAME ORGANISATIONS ARE ALWAYS FINDING SOMETHING WRONG OR NEEDING  MONEY  IN THE COMMUNITY ( THEY NEVER ASK YOU WHERE  AND HOW DID YOU GET THE MONEY YOU ARE GIVING THEM ) ! !
LIKE SOMEONE ONCE SAID ON A T.V. PROGRAM  " IF I WANT TO BE SOMEONE IN THE FRUM  COMMUNITY YOU NEED TO GIVE MONEY "! !
I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS BY THE GOYIM AND BY THE NON RELIGIOUS COMMUNITY.
BUT BY US YIDEN THE PURPOSE OF LIFE SHOULD AND IS DIFFERENT ? ? ?
HAVE YOU SEEN THE PRICES OF THE JEWISH FUNCTIONS YOU WOULD THINK THAT WE PRINT MONEY ! ! ! 
EVEN ALL THE LADIES SHIURIM YOU CANNOT GET IN FREE AND NOT JUST £ 1
I AM NOT SURPRISED THAT THEY ALL HAVE INTERNET.
THEY CAN WATCH  "  TORAH ANY TIME PROGRAM"  ON THE INTERNET FREE.
IF MY WIFE GOES TO AN EVENING WHERE THEY SHOW EXACTLY THE SAME THING
THE PRICE IS ASTRONOMICAL.

TERRORIZE

TZENIUS

A FEW YEARS AGO THERE WERE FRUM YIDEN WHO MADE  A LOT OF NOISE TO TRANSPORT FOR LONDON ABOUT THE BUSES PASSING STAMFORD HILL 
NOT HAVING APPROPRIATE PICTURES  ON THE ADVERTISEMENT.
THEY FORGET THAT WE LIVE IN A GOYISHE CITY AND COUNTRY.
I LATELY USE THE BUSES A LOT AS I HAVE A BUS PASS.
LAST WEEK I CAME TO THE BUS STOP ON THE TOP OF DUNSMURE ROAD
THERE IS  A SHELTER WHERE YOU CAN SIT DOWN.
IMAGINE MY SURPRISE  WHEN THERE WAS A FRUM WOMAN NURSING HER BABY THERE IN PUBLIC.
WHEN I SAT DOWN NEXT TO HER  AND LOOKED AT HER IF I COULD RECOGNISE WHO SHE WAS 
SHE  COVERED UP THE BABY AND LOOKED AT ME WITH ASTONISHMENT HOW COULD I SIT DOWN NEXT TO HER  SHE MUST HAVE BEEN CHASSIDISH.
I AM SURE WHEN SHE CAME HOME SHE TOLD HER HUSBAND WHAT A CHEEK I HAD TO SIT NEXT TO HER. SHE DID NOT FEEL ANY EMBARRASSMENT AT REVEALING HERSELF IN PUBLIC.
THAT'S THE STUPID WORLD WE LIVE IN. THE WOMEN MAY DO AND DRESS HOW AND WHAT THEY WANT.
BUT THE MAN MUST ALWAYS BE THE FRUM ONE ! ! !
IT WAS JUST A PITY I DID NOT HAVE MY VIDEO CAMERA WITH ME.

THE BLOGGERS

IN THIS WEEKS JEWISH TRIBUNE  7th NOVEMBER 2013.
ALEX STROM  WRITES ABOUT THE MURKY WORLD OF THE BLOG, WHICH HAS MADE A SIGNIFICANT UNWELCOME CONTRIBUTION TO THE SPLITS WITHIN THE KEHILLA. WHEN PEOPLE  GET UNFAIR TREATMENT BY THE AGUDAS YISROEL  SPECIALLY IN HOUSING SUCH AS NEPOTISM (I DO NOT WISH TO GO INTO DETAILS)
OF UNFAIR TREATMENT IN THE AGUDAS ADVICE BUREAU SUCH AS NOT ENOUGH
STAFF OF WHICH HACKNEY COUNCIL PAY FOR MORE STAFF WHICH ARE USED FOR OTHER PURPOSES AND MICHOEL POSEN CHARGING £ 1 A MINUTE AND FORCING OUR POOR PEOPLE TO GO PRIVATE TO HIM.
THE JEWISH TRIBUNE WILL NOT PUBLISH THE PUBLIC COMPLAINTS.
ALEX WRITES THAT THESE BLOGERS ARE ALWAYS ANONYMOUS  HIDING BEHIND SOME PEN NAME.
I HAVE GUTS AND ALWAYS PUT MY NAME ( LIKE ALEX STROM ).
THE CLOAK OF ANONYMITY IS IN THE LETTER PAGE OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE
IT IS TRUE ALEX STROM ALWAYS  WRITES HIS NAME BUT NINETY PERCENT OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE WRITERS USE A PEN-NAME.
EVEN THE NAME OF THE B.T. EDITOR OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE IS NOT PUBLISHED,
OR THE NAME OF THE B.T DIRECTOR OF THE AGUDAS YISROEL ETC,ETC, 
EVERYONE IN THE AGUDA AND OUR KEHILLA JUST PASS THE BUCK
WHEN YOU COMPLAIN. 

RASHBI'S KEVER

I READ IN THE JEWISH TRIBUNE 7th NOVEMBER 2013.
THAT THE ISRAELI GOVERNMENT WANTS TO TAKE OVER THE RELIGIOUS ENCLAVE OF PRAYER AND KEDUSHA AND  PASS IN INTO THE CONTROL OF A GOVERNMENT CORPORATION.
MY PLEA TO THE CHAREIDIM IS, PLEASE DO NOT FIGHT THEM THE NORMAL WAY WITH DEMONSTRATIONS. ETC. ETC.
OVER A HUNDRED YEARS AGO THERE WAS A  RABBI WHO DID NOT LIKE THE GOINGS ON AT THE HOLY SITE ON REBBE SHIMONS ANNIVERSARY ON LAG B'OMER.
 LOTS OF NONE RELIGIOUS PEOPLE CAME TO CELEBRATE IN A NONE RELIGIOUS WAY.
THE RABBI WANTED TO MAKE A BAN ON FRUM PEOPLE GOING THERE ON LAG B'OMER.
THE STORY GOES THAT REBBE SHIMON CAME TO THIS RABBI IN A DREAM AND TOLD HIM  NOT TO MIX INTO HIS SIMCHES
I AM NOT A PROPHET,OR A SON OF A PROPHET.
I SAY TO ALL THE FRUM PEOPLE: LET THEM TRY AND MIX INTO THE TZIYON.
IF THE WARS AND THE SURVIVAL OF ISRAEL DID NOT TEACH THEM THAT THERE IS A G=D ABOVE, THIS WILL BE A LESSON TO RELIGIOUS AND NONE RELIGIOUS.
START WITH REBBE SHIMON AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

PROUD OF MY WIFE

I WAS REALLY PROUD OF MY WIFE. TO-DAY WHEN SHE CAME HOME FROM SHOPPING IN STAMFORD HILL.
AS SHE IS FROM HOLLAND, SHE LIKES ORIGINAL SOFT EATING LIQUORICE.
TILL NOW A BAG OF 200g USED TO COST £1-95.
THERE IS ONLY ONE JEWISH SHOP IN STAMFORD HILL THAT SELLS IT. 
TO-DAY THEY SAID THAT THE PRICE HAD GONE UP TO £2-50 ! ! ! THAT IS AN INCREASE OF 55 PENCE IN A WEEK.
MY WIFE SAID: " I AM NOT PAYING THAT AMOUNT"  SHE LEFT IT.
IF WE ONLY ALL DID THE SAME THING WHEN THE SHOP KEEPERS PUT UP THE PRICES LIKE MAD ! ! 
WE HAVE TO  BE ABLE TO SAY TO OUR INSIDE WE CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT.
I AM SURE THE COST OF LIVING BY THE JEWISH PEOPLE WOULD COME DOWN. 
THERE IS A JEWISH NEWS PAPER THAT KEPT ON GOING UP AND UP, I JUST STOPPED BUYING IT.
I TOLD MY WIFE I WILL HAVE A LOOK IN THE GOYSHE SHOPS FOR HER IF I CAN GET IT CHEAPER. 

AN OPEN LETTER

THIS IS AN OPEN LETTER TO LIPA SCHMELTZER FROM GABY LOCK.
I SAW YOUR VIDEO ON " A GITEN CHODESH KISLEV " .
YOU ARE  A CHASIDISHE YUNGERMAN AND YOUR AIM IS LIKE MINE, THROUGH  WORDS  TO BRING YIDEN NEARER TO YIDISHKEIT AND BELIEVING IN HASHEM
THROUGH MUSIC LIKE M.B.D.
LIKE BY ME THE CHASIDISHE GROUPS THAT I BELONG TO WOULD LIKE ME TO CUT MY PAIOUS ETC,ETC.
I AM A TORAH AND CHASIDISHE YID, EVEN IF I GO ON TELEVISION.
 MY AIM IS THROUGH MY MOUTH TO SPREAD YIDISKEIT WITH IT ( like a rabbi said to me G=D gave it to you use it to spread yidiskeit ).
YOU ARE A CHASIDISHE YUNGERMAN, EVEN IF THE ORGANISATION THAT YOU GREW UP IN DO NOT RESPECT YOU.
LIKE M.B.D. ( who is over fifty years my friend )
SING YOUR SONGS WHERE AND WHEN YOU CAN. YOU CAN GET TO MORE PEOPLE TO-DAY THEN THE BALSHEM TOV COULD.
BUT STAY DRESSED IN YOUR ORIGINAL GARB, EVEN IF YOU ARE SINGING FOR NOT RELIGIOUS  JEWS OR GOYIM.
ALWAYS REMEMBER WE DO NOT  BEND, WE STAY WHO WE ARE, INSIDE AND OUTSIDE.

REFINED PEOPLE OF REAL BELZ

THE BOYS FROM JAPAN

AVROHOM  BARCHORIM

ARON NEZRI

NOSON BINYOMIN BINDINGER

HAVE PUT AN ADD IN THE LAST WEEKS JEWISH TRIBUNE 31/10/2013.
HELP OUR CHOSON  REPORT FROM JAPAN, 
I THINK THAT WITH ALL THE MONEY AND EFFORT THESE BOYS HAVE COST THE JEWISH PEOPLE.
HOW MANY BOYS, CHILDREN, AND FAMILIES COULD HAVE BEEN HELPED.
AFTER THE LAST BOY WAS RELEASED ( four and half years in prison )
LOTS OF STORIES CAME OUT ABOUT THEM AND I DO NOT THINK THAT THEY WERE THE PICK OF THE BUNCH.
SO JUST MARRY THEM OF QUIETLY, BORUCH HASHEM.  
 DO NOT PORTRAY THEM AS THE IDEAL YESHIVA BOCHUR.
ALSO I WANT TO GIVE A BROCHE TO THESE THREE,
THERE ARE LOTS OF PEOPLE WHO NEED GENUINE HELP.                                                     GO AND HELP THEM.

THE VAAD

THE Vaad Lema'an Toihar Hamachaneh
of the Union of Orthodox Hebrew Congregations

HAD AN ADVERT IN NEWS UPDATE 24 OCTOBER 2013.

THIS IS THE ADVERT:
Following the notice publicized by the Vaad on the
13th Sivan 5773 condemning the practice of using
tailoring establishments where Gidrei Kedusha and
Tzneius are being violated, we wish to inform the
public that nothing has changed and we have received
fresh reports of unsavoury incidents. We therefore
wish to repeat clearly that it is strongly advised NOT
to use such establishments. This advice is in force till
the Vaad retracts in writing.

NUMBER ONE:
HOW DOES A  FRUM JEWISH WOMAN GO TO A MAN TAILOR IN THE FIRST PLACE ?
SHE IS ASKING FOR TROUBLE. ! !                                                                                           NUMBER TWO:
DO THE VAAD THINK THAT A JEWISH WOMAN WHO WENT TO A MAN -TAILOR, CARES ABOUT THEIR ADDVERT IN THE NEWSUPDATE ?
NUMBER THREE:
WHAT IS THE VAAD GOING TO RETRACT ?
THAT A FRUM JEWISH WOMAN MAY GO TO A MAN-TAILOR ?
NUMBER FOUR:
UNSAVOURY INCIDENTS HAPPEN WHEN WOMEN GO TO RABONIM OR LAY LEADERS  ETC,ETC,TO TALK THEIR PROBLEMS OUT.
ALL PROBLEMS IN LIFE MUST BE BROUGHT TO A FULL BETH DIN, NOT INDIVIDUAL
RABBONIM OR LAY LEADERS.  
AND TO FINISH,  ON THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT; MY WIFE WENT TO A GOYISHE
SCHOOL IN HOLLAND ( as there was no Jewish school ).
A JEW HAS TO KNOW AND PRACTISE RESTRAINT, HE CAN NOT DO EVERYTHING THE GOY ( or not religious Jew) DOES, EVEN IF HAS TO MIX WITH THEM.

BUT A TAILOR, EVERY JEWISH WOMAN SHOULD KNOW THAT ! ! ! ! !

JEWISH MARRIAGE

IN THE  JEWISH  MARRIAGE CEREMONY WE MAKE A BLESSINGS FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM UNDER THE CHUPAH, ALSO THE WHOLE SEVEN DAYS OF THE SHEVA BROCHES.
THE REASON, SEX IN THE MARRIAGE IS NOT EVEN TOUCHED UPON, ONLY IN THE LAST OF THE SEVEN BROCHES WE MENTION:
PLEASURE, DELIGHT, LOVE, BROTHERHOOD, PEACE AND COMPANIONSHIP.
RABBI SHMUEL WOSSNER TOLD ME ONCE THAT WE HAVE TO SAY THIS BROCHE
AND IT IS VERY IMPORTANT.
IF YOU DO NOT ASK THIS FROM THE RIBONO SHEL OLAM,
THAT IN YOUR MARRIAGE YOU SHOULD HAVE LOVE, BROTHERHOOD AND PEACE
FROM YOUR PARTNER,
THEN IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU DESIRE YOUR PARTNER,
YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TRUE LOVE.
AS TRUE LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS A PRESENT FROM G=D.                  
 ( TO LEARN TO LOVE G=D )
AND WITHOUT YOU PRAYING AND REQUESTING IT,YOU WILL NEVER GET IT.
HAVING LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER IS BROUGHT THROUGH THE THIRD PARTNER IN A MARRIAGE. THAT IS G=D ! !
THAT IS WHY RABBIS DANCE A MITZVAH DANCE.
THEY ARE NOT ONLY DANCING FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM, ( BUT AT THE THIRD PARTY PRESENT ) G=D WHO IS PRESENT AT EVERY MARRIAGE.
THEY ARE PRAYING  THAT G=D WILL PUT INTO THIS MARRIAGE LOVE, BROTHERHOOD AND PEACE.
THE YETZER HORAH HAS MADE THE MITZVAH DANCE INTO ENTERTAINMENT
AND MARRIAGE INTO SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP.
 WHAT A PITY! ! !

GLUCK BAND AND RABBI DENDEROWICZ

AGUDAS YISROEL (YISHMOEL)

SEXUAL ATTRACTION

I WAS TALKING WITH A FEW YOUNG PEOPLE ABOUT LAST WEEKS SEDRA THAT 
AVROHOM  HAD A CHILD FIRST AT EIGHTY SIX AND THEN  AT NEARLY A HUNDRED.
EVEN IN AVROHOM'S TIME IT WAS CONSIDERED AN ACHIEVEMENT.
THEY SAID THAT A MAN CAN DO IT FOR EVER AN EVER.
I WAS SURPRISED THAT THEY DID  NOT KNOW THE FACTS OF LIFE
AND THAT YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WIFE  WHICH 
DOES NOT INVOLVE  "LADIES AND GENTLEMAN".
ONE OF THESE YOUNG PEOPLE WAS SO SHOCKED THAT HE SAID TO ME YOU CAN TAKE VIAGRA AND GO ON FOR EVER AND EVER.
I SAID TO HIM THAT THE BODY DIES OVER THE YEARS.
 THE REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS OF A MAN DIE BETWEEN 50 AND 70. 
MOST MEN AT SEVENTY DO NOT HAVE OR ARE ABLE TO HAVE A SEXUAL LIFE AS IN THE YOUNGER YEARS.
ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE LIKE ME, YOU HAVE DIABETES TWO.
I WAS ONCE, YEARS AGO BY DAYAN AHARON DOVID DUNNER'S SHIUR THAT A MAN CAN GO ON FOR EVER AND EVER.
I SAID TO HIM THIS IS NOT TRUE AND YOU CAN NOT BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND THIS.
THE WOMAN GET PAST IT AND SO DO THE MAN.
YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND
LOVE AND CARING FOR EACH OTHER, SEX ALONE IS A MISTAKE TO BE AN 
ATTRACTION BECAUSE THIS DIES LONG,LONG, BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY DIE.
WE HAD A DR BY THE SHIUR AT THAT TIME, DR SPITZER AND HE CONFIRMED WHAT I SAID.
I WAS SURPRISED AT THE IGNORANCE OF SO MANY YOUNG AND OLDER PEOPLE
 THE BOTTOM LINE IS DO NOT BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

LEARNING TO BE COME ONE

AS YOU WILL HAVE NOTICED I HAVE BEEN A WAY ON HOLIDAY OVER THE YOM TOV PERIOD .
I WAS NOT SURPRISED TO HERE THAT IN THE FEW WEEKS BEFORE YOM TO 
THE UNION OF HEBREW CONGREGATION OF RABBI PADWAH
HAD GIVEN 22 GITEN. LOTS OF PEOPLE SAID TO ME THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND
RABBI PADWAH
I SAID I UNDERSTAND HIM VERY WELL 
HE IS A ROV AND NOT A COUNSELOR IT IS NOT HIS JOB TO KEEP PEOPLE 
TOGETHER, SPECIALLY IF BOTH SIDES AGREE TO A GET ( DIVORCE )
ONE OF THE RABBIS ONCE SAID TO ME, DID THEY ASK ME WHEN THEY GOT
MARRIED  ?  IF I THINK THE GIRL OR BOY ARE MATURE ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED ?
THE PROBLEM STARTS  WITH THE PARENTS, A BOY AND GIRL HAVE TO BE EXPLAINED WHAT BEING MARRIED IS ALL ABOUT.
THEY TEACH THEM IN SCHOOL ARTS AND CRAFTS ETC. ETC.
THEY MARRY THEM OF YOUNG, ESPECIALLY THE BOYS SO THEY SHOULD NOT STRAY.
THE GIRLS ARE NOT TAUGHT THAT THEY HAVE TO DRESS ATTRACTIVE, NOT ONLY
 WHEN THEY GO TO A CHASSENE.
BUT ALSO FRIDAY NIGHT WHEN THE HUSBAND COMES HOME FROM THE BEIS HAMEDRASH.
MY WIFE HAS ALWAYS DRESSED FRIDAY NIGHT AS IF SHE IS GOING TO A WEDDING.
ON MY WAY HOME FRIDAY NIGHT I SEE SOME OF THESE YOUNG WOMEN THEY DO NOT LOOK TWENTY FIVE BUT FIFTY. 
THEY WEAR NO WIG JUST A BIG SHMATTE ON THEIR HEAD OR WHITE TIECHEL, THEY WEAR THE SO CALLED SHABBOS-GOWNS WITH NO UNDERWEAR UNDERNEATH.
I AM NOT SURPRISED WHEN THESE HUSBANDS  STRAY AND WANT A DIVORCE,
ON THE OTHER  HAND THE BOYS HAVE NEVER BEEN TAUGHT THE ART OF LIVING
TOGETHER WITH A PARTNER, ( HAVE THE GIRLS ? ? ) AS THE TORAH SAYS
AND THEY SHALL BE ONE FLESH, G=D WANTS A MAN AND WOMAN TO BE AS ONE 
UNIT.
AS THE LEV SIMCHA OF GUR TOLD ME BEFORE MY MARRIAGE :  " A JEWISH MARRIAGE IS TO MAKE YOUR HOUSEHOLD ONE UNIT. " MAN AND WOMAN ARE ONE.
 I HAVE NOT STARTED ABOUT THE PROBLEMS THAT COME WHEN THEY HAVE CHILDREN.

SAMET ON BOAT ANTWERPEN

WHITE LIES

AS A PSYCHIATRIST, YOUR GREATEST ASSET IS YOUR PATIENTS TRUST IN YOU.
" DO NOT  JEOPARDIZE  IT "
I AM CONVINCED THE MEDICAL DIRECTOR WAS RIGHT,  I NO LONGER TELL " WHITE LIES"  OR LIES OF ANY COLOUR, EVEN IF I CAN JUSTIFY THEM.
THE TORAH SAYS " YOU SHALL NOT LIE.                                                                                
 " THEN ADDS KEEP YOUR DISTANCE FROM FALSEHOOD "
THIS IS THE ONLY TIME THE TORAH FORBIDS SOMETHING THAT MIGHT LEAD TO A VIOLATION.
THIS IS IMPORTANT NOT ONLY  IN THE DOCTOR-PATIENT RELATIONSHIP, BUT IN ALL
RELATIONSHIPS.
IT IS OF SPECIAL IMPORTANCE IN MARRIAGE,BECAUSE THE BASIS OF MARRIAGE IS TRUST, AND IT SHOULD NOT BE JEOPARDISED.IF HUSBAND AND WIFE COMMIT THEMSELVES TO ABSOLUTE TRUTHFULNESS, THE MARRIAGE CAN WITHSTAND MANY STRESSES.
YOU MAY FIND A WAY TO CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT A PARTICULAR UNTRUTH IS NOT A VIOLATION OF THE TORAH ( ISSUR ).
EVEN IF YOU ARE RIGHT, THE FACT REMAINS THAT THE OTHER PERSON WILL FEEL THAT YOU LIED,AND HIS OR HER TRUST IN YOU IS UNDERMINED.
WHEN YEARS AGO I SUGGESTED  " MEET AND GREET "  AS A TRUE FRIENDSHIP GROUP
FOR LOTS OF LONELY PEOPLE TO COME TOGETHER.
MEET AND  JUST TALK HONESTLY WITH ONE ANOTHER WITH NO MOTIVE OF RAISING FUNDS FOR ZADOKA, JUST HONEST AND TRUE FRIENDSHIPS,WHICH REALLY EVERY  PERSON SHOULD HAVE WITH THEIR PARTNER.

Meet the Rabbi Whose Business Smarts Have Attracted Google

(Wednesday, August 28th, 2013)

“Does anyone here not know what a Kindle is?” asks the man leading a $180 business seminar at Jerusalem’s Ramada hotel on a recent evening, his side curls swinging as he takes a quick look around the crowded room.
It may be a strange question to pose to budding entrepreneurs, but some of Rabbi Issamar Ginzberg’s clients come from the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community, where some consider Internet and TV taboo and many maintain a lifestyle built around tradition that has little need for modern technology.
As a scion of prominent Hasidic rabbis himself, Rabbi Ginzberg is steeped in this community and its religious sensitivities; his family, he says, traces its roots back through rabbinical dynasties to King David and even Adam and Eve.

- See more at: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/183515/Meet-the-Rabbi-Whose-Business-Smarts-Have-Attracted-Google.html#sthash.b7WamMZY.dpuf

I HAVE MET RABBI GINZBERG IN LONDON AT ONE OF HIS MEETINGS HE TALKS WELL, SPECIALLY ABOUT ALL OF US ORTHODOX BEING ABLE TO BE BUDDING ENTREPRENEURS.          HE TELLS HIS LISTENERS ALL THEY HAVE TO DO TO BE ENTREPRENEURS IS LEARN HOW TO SPEAK.                                      RABBI GINZBERG AND HIS FRIENDS ARE BA'ALE TESHUVA.              BE WARNED THEY HAVE LEARNED THIS CON IN THE WORLD THEY COME FROM.

AN

NEWS UPDATE

THERE ARE TWO MAGNIFICENT LETTERS IN THIS WEEKS' UPDATE 22/08/2013.
IT IS A PITY THAT THE SECOND ONE DID NOT HAVE,  THE GUTS LIKE RABBI J.J. ROSNER TO WRITE HER NAME , JUST CHAYA .K.
RABBI ROSNER IS RIGHT, IGNORANT PEOPLE GIVE THEIR OPINION ON THINGS THAT THEY HAVE NO IDEA OF.
CHAYA WRITES THAT THE TIME HAS COME FOR THE RABBONIM TO TAKE ISSUE
WITH PEOPLES SPENDING ATTITUDE.
CHAYA. FIRST OF ALL, RABBONIM ARE NOT THERE TO SOLVE ALL THE SPENDING 
PROBLEMS AND MARRIAGE PROBLEMS IN OUR COMMUNITY.
THEIR JOB IS LIKE A GARAGE, A MECHANIC HE FIXES THE CAR SO THAT IT WORKS  PROPERLY.
HOW YOU DRIVE IS NOT THE MECHANICS' PROBLEM.
THE RABBONIM ARE THERE TO SHOW AND TELL YOU THE TRUE TORAH WAY IN LIFE,         
EVEN IF SOMETIMES YOU WILL FIND A FAULT IN THE RABBONIM AS WE ALL WANT MONEY.
A RABBI OR ROV OF A COMMUNITY SPECIALLY IN TO-DAYS' WORLD DOES NOT HAVE TO BE PERFECT HIMSELF AND CAN STILL TELL YOU A TRUE TORAH OPINION.
WHEN MY DEAR WIFE LOOKS AROUND ON TO-DAY'S WORLD,
SHE HAS A SAYING  "THERE ARE MORE OUT THAN IN."
LAST WEEK IT WAS VERY WARM, WHEN I WAS WALKING TO MY SHIUR I SAW A YOUNG  LADY WITH A CHILD IN A BUGGY .
IT WAS DRESSED UP LIKE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE WINTER WOOLLY HAT AND ALL, BUT IT MATCHED ! ! THAT WAS ALL THAT MATTERED TO THE YOUNG MOTHER.
A QUESTION WHICH DOES BELONG TO THE RABBONIM, SHOULD WE ALLOW SUCH YOUNGSTERS  TO HAVE CHILDREN ? ?

FRIENDSHIP GROUP

I AM WRITING THIS IN LARGE LETTERS,AS IT IS A VERY IMPORTANT POINT IN LIFE.                                                                      G=D MADE A WORLD WITH ALL DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE IN IT.                                                                                                               EVEN THE JEWISH FRUM PEOPLE (SPECIALLY CHASSIDIC) HAVE ALL DIFFERENT KINDS  OF PEOPLE. THE IDEA FROM G=D MAKING THIS WORLD IS THAT WE GET ALONG WITH EACH OTHER.                                                                                                  WE ARE ASKED BY G=D TO MARRY A PARTNER WHO IS  COMPLETELY DIFFERENT AND THE ART OF LIFE IS TO GET ALONG AND TOLERATE EACH OTHER WHICH BRINGS TRUE LOVE.                                                                                                                   I AM A MEMBER OF A CLUB WHICH IS SOMETHING NEW. IT IS CALLED A FRIENDSHIP GROUP.                                                         THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO THIS GROUP ARE  LONELY, THEY COME TOGETHER NOT FOR THE OUTINGS OR THE ACTIVITIES OF THE GROUP, BUT JUST FOR THE PEOPLE TO HAVE FRIENDS, IT IS NOT LIKE OTHER GROUPS.                                                       THIS WAS THE IDEA OF THE BA-AL SHEM TOV BUT CHASIDUS HAS STRAYED AWAY FROM IT.                                                                       A JEW WHO FEELS HE HAS FRIENDS IN HIS GROUP WILL NOT STRAY FROM YIDDISHKEIT.                                                                    MY DUTY AS A JEW IS TO BE MEKAREV ( MAKE THEM FEEL NEAR ) EVERY JEW.                                                                                      A GOOD FRIENDSHIP CLUB MAKES EVERYBODY FEEL THAT THEY HAVE VALUE.                                                                                     A GOOD PARTNERSHIP IN MARRIAGE  IS NOT JUST TO HAVE A FAMILY, BUT GIVES EACH PARTNER  VALUE.                                        I HAVE TAKEN THIS IDEA TO THE GOYIM IN THE FRIENDSHIP GROUP AND IT HAS BEEN VERY SUCCESSFUL.   

FEMALE TEACHERS

A TEACHER WRITES IN THIS WEEKS UPDATE 15/08/2013
OLDER LADIES AND GIRLS HAVE BEEN WORKING AND ACCEPTED
THAT THEY EARN VERY LITTLE.,
GIRLS AND LADIES WHO TEACH ARE EXPECTED TO BE SATISFIED
WITH FAR LESS THEN COUNTERPARTS IN OTHER PROFESSIONS.

THE REASON FOR THIS IS THAT  GIRLS AND WOMEN THINK THAT A JOB AS A TEACHER IS HITTING THE JACKPOT, OF HAVING VALUE.
AS THE LETTER STATES THEY SHOULD EARN RESPECTABLE WAGES.
IF YOU ARE NOT PAID RESPECTABLE WAGES
THEN YOU SHOULD NOT THINK THAT YOU HAVE VALUE,
YOU ARE SIMPLY BEING USED,AS MOST HEIMISHE MOSDOS DO.
YOU  ARE A SHMATTE BY THE HEADS AND THE HANHOLA.

WHAT WE HAVE TO DO IS ALL GIRLS  AND LADIES WHO TEACH HAVE TO
UNITE. ( AND FIGHT FOR  PROPERER WAGES ).
I KNOW THAT SOME JEWISH SCHOOLS MAKE IT A POINT THAT YOU
MAY NOT TELL ( EVEN ANOTHER TEACHER ) HOW MUCH YOU ARE
GETTING PAID.

STRESS OF LIFE

CHILDREN

I WAS LAST NIGHT BY A FAMILY WEDDING , I FELT SORRY FOR THE CHOSON AND KALLA, AND BLESSED THEM THEY SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FOR THE FIRST FEW YEARS. 
OPPOSITE MY HOUSE TWO YOUNG GIRLS FROM A FAMILY WANTED TO EARN 
SOME MONEY SO THEY HAVE MADE A HOLIDAY PLAY SCHEME.
THE PARENTS COME THERE IN THE MORNING ( THE FATHER OR THE MOTHER )
DROP THE CHILDREN AND THEY FEEL FREE.
I WATCH OUT OF MY WINDOW AS THE SMALL CHILDREN DO NOT WANT TO STAY, THEY CRY AND RUN AFTER THE PERSON BRINGING THEM. THEY DO NOT WANT TO GO TO THE PLAY SCHEME. THEY WANT TO BE WITH THE PARENTS.
I ASK MYSELF THE QUESTION ,
 IF THE PARENTS FIND IT BOTHERSOME TO BE WITH THE CHILDREN FOR THE LAST TWO WEEKS OF THE HOLIDAYS,
WHY O WHY DID THEY HAVE CHILDREN IN THE FIRST PLACE ?
IS ONE OR TWO  CHILDREN  NOT ENOUGH ! ! !
CHILDREN HAVE TO FEEL WANTED AND VALUED,
I HAVE HAD TO TELL A FEW MOTHERS IN THE STREET, THAT YOU CAN NOT TALK ON THE MOBILE WHEN WALKING AND CROSSING THE ROAD WITH CHILDREN.
BACK TO  THE WEDDING, MOST GIRLS AND BOYS WHEN THEY GET MARRIED ARE NOT READY TO HAVE CHILDREN.

WHAT G=D WANTS

EVERYONE NEEDS RESPECT

Double Tragedy: Two Infants Dead After Being Forgotten in Vehicles

(Monday, July 15th, 2013)

Another two tragedies in which an infant was forgotten in a vehicle in Eretz Yisrael R”L — ending in tragedy.
This first case occurred in Yishuv Shilo in Shomron on Sunday, 7 Menachem Av 5773. The child, a five-month-old boy was left in the family car by the dad for several hours. Police report seven hours. Despite all resuscitation efforts there was little hope for the little boy who was pronounced dead.
And on Monday afternoon, 8 Menachem Av, another child was found in cardiac arrest, left in the family vehicle in Yishuv Dolev, also in Shomron. In this case, the child appears to have been in the vehicle for five hours. MDA paramedics transported the infant to Tel Hashomer Hospital in Tel Aviv. The child, a girl, was R”L pronounced dead in the hospital. (Conflicting reports place the victim’s age at 18-months, 3-years and 3.5 years).

Just two weeks ago the same occurred with another infant in Ramat Gan. In that case, a nine-month-old girl was left in a vehicle by dad, once again, a fatal outcome.

- See more at: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/177820/Double-Tragedy%3A-Two-Infants-Dead-After-Being-Forgotten-in-Vehicles.

I SAY WE SHOULD NOT ALLOW MARRIED COUPLES TO HAVE CHILDREN ONLY
IF THEY GO THROUGH A TEST.
AND WE KNOW THAT THEY HAVE RESPONSIBLY TO LOOK AFTER AND WANT CHILDREN.
I HAVE WROTE ABOUT THIS BEFORE,
MARRYING AT A YOUNG AGE IT MIGHT BE GOOD THAT THEY SHOULD NOT DRIFT ? ?
MOST OF THE 18 OR 20 YEAR OLD ARE TO YOUNG FOR THIS RESPONSIBILITY, 
OF CARING FOR A CHILD I SEE IT EVERY DAY,
EVEN THE OLDER ONES WHO HAVE BIG FAMILIES ALWAYS WANT TO RUN A WAY FOR A FEW DAYS.

THIS IS FROM THE JEWISH TRIBUNE 18 JULY 2013
PAGE THIRTEEN
CAR ALERT

In the last few days, Chaverim and Hatzola have had two calls concerning children
locked in cars while their parents were unable to find the keys.

I WONDER IF THESE PARENTS LEFT THEIR PURSE OR VALUABLES IN THE CAR ? ? ?
IF I WAS THE ROV I WOULD CALL SOCIAL SERVICES AND TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY
AND PUT THEM INTO JEWISH FRUM CARE.
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO THESE PARENTS WERE,THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE VALUE
OF A YIDDISHE CHILD.
I SEE SO MANY FRUM HEIMSHE CHASSIDISHE  PARENTS LEAVING THE CHILDREN IN CARE OF THE
SHIKSES.
WHEN MY CHILDREN WERE SMALL ( I KNEW  THEY WERE A BROCHE FROM THE HOLY BEIS YISROEL
AND HIS BROTHER THE HOLY LEV SIMCHA ).
I WOULD NOT EVEN LET A GOY TOUCH THEM.

HIDABROOT

VERY IMPORTANT

                           WHEN READING THE JEWISH FRUM MEDIA, LIKE THE
                            MIDWEEK, THE UPDATE OR THE NEWSHEET,
                            YOU THINK THAT WE ARE ALWAYS TEACHING OUR  YOUNGSTERS 
                            TO BE GAMBLERS WITH SUCH THINGS AS  "SPLIT THE POT "
                            OR WIN A CAR OR HOLIDAY HOME FOR YOUR FAMILY, CHINESE 
                             AUCTION OR EVEN SCRATCH CARDS.
                            I KNOW OF SO MANY PEOPLE SPECIALLY YUNGELIGHT WHO LIVE 
                            ON THE NEVER, NEVER, CREDIT CARD,
                            JUST LIKE THE GOYIM.
                            IF THE PARENTS OF THESE YUNGELIGHT DID NOT TEACH THEM
                            WHAT IS IT GOING TO LOOK LIKE IN TEN, FIFTEEN, OR TWENTY
                              YEARS TIME ? ? ? ?
                             BUT THAT IS THE REBONON SHEL OLAMS  PROBLEM.
                             WHAT I DO NOT LIKE IS WHEN THE RABBONIM PUSH PEOPLE
                             TO WRITE LETTERS TO THEIR NEIGHBOURS,
                            LOCAL HACHNOSAS KALLOH CAMPAIGNS.
                            I APPEAL TO YOU ON BEHALF OF A FAMILY HERE IN STAMFORD
                            HILL ARE FINDING THEMSELVES DEEP IN DEBT MAKING EVEN
                            BAREST MINIMUM CHALLENGING.
                            MY MOTHER A.H TAUGHT ME TO BE CAREFUL WITH MONEY
                            AND  I AND MY DEAR WIFE TAUGHT THAT TO MY SONS B.H.
                            IF WE TO DAY HAVE MONEY TO GIVE, I GIVE TO MY SONS  WHO ARE
                            SITING AND LEARNING.
                            
                            P.S.  I DO NOT NEED RABBONIN TO WRITE LETTERS WHAT IS
                            IMPORTANT   
                                                  
                           
                           
    

HONOR YOUR FATHER & MOTHER

LADIES AND GENTLEMAN

SAY NO TO 0870

                                      THIS COMES FROM THE HAMODIA THAT'S AN IDEA: 4-JULY 2013
                                      Online there is a much-lauded web page
                                      called saynoto0870.com
                                      Just put those words in the searchbar,
                                      with no gaps between the words,and the web
                                      page will appear.
                                      There you'll see two boxes which will let
                                       you search either by entering the company
                                       name you seek or by entering the high premium which you have.
                                      And hey, presto ! all regular landline-number alternatives
                                      for that company or organization.
                                      To my knowledge,this is the only totally free service to 
                                      enable consumers to circumvent high premium numbers such as 
                                      0844 or 0871 or 0845 or 0870.
                                      THE FRUM PUBLIC NEEDS TO BE HELPED TO MAKE THEIR LIFE
                                      CHEAPER.
                                      WE HAVE TO TEACH THE YOUNGSTERS TO SHOP AROUND.
                                       I WAS IN A SHOP AND I SAW A FAMILY OF MINE BUYING 
                                       THINGS WHICH ON EACH ITEM WERE 40 PENCE CHEAPER
                                       IN A SHOP AROUND THE CORNER.
                                      MY WIFE WATCHES THESE( SPECIALLY YOUNGSTERS ) BY 
                                       CHILDREN'S  CLOTHES WHICH ARE FIVE OR SIX TIME
                                      CHEAPER  IN THE BIG SHOPS.
                                       IF A  WIFE WANTS THE HUSBAND TO SIT AND LEARN,
                                      SHE MUST MANAGE THE HOME AFFAIRS BETTER. 
                                      

        

URGENT WARNING

                              I SAW A NOTICE IN THE BEIS HAMEDRASH THIS MORNING
                              I WILL WRITE IT HERE AS IT IS VERY IMPORTANT.


                                                                                  Vaad Lema'an Toihar Hamachneh
                                                          of the Union of Orthodcox Hebrew Congregations
                                                           URGENT      WARNING
                               It is an Issur D'Oraysa to listen or to look at words of
                               apikorsos in any sort of way.
                               Unfortunately individuals who have abandoned the
                               Derech Hashem R " L and publicizing, writing and
                               blogging etc. words of mockery, derision and contempt.It
                               is an Issur D'Oraysa to repeat or forward their content
                               and one should refrain from being associated or have any
                               contact with them whatsoever. One is also obligated to
                               object and protest when hearing or seeing anyone passing
                                on the above.

                               The Vaad - with the agreement of the Moro D'Asro and members
                               of the Rabbinate
                               LOTS OF HEIMISHE CHASSIDISHE PEOPLE CAME UP TO ME 
                               AND TALKED  TO ME, 
                               ABOUT THE PROGRAMS I MADE FOR  THE TELEVISION
                                I SAID TO THEM WHICH ROV GAVE YOU PERMISSION TO 
                               WATCH  TELEVISION ? ?
                               I ASKED A WELL KNOWN ROV IF I SHOULD DO IT AND HE TOLD
                                ME EXACTLY WHAT I SHOULD SAY.
                                One is also obligated to
                               object and protest when hearing or seeing anyone passing
                                on the above.
                                THE RABBONIM AND THE VAAD SHOULD GO TO ALL 
                                BOTEI MIDROSHIM IN STAMFORD HILL AND GOLDERS GREEN
                                 AND SEE HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE GOT BLACKBERRIES ETC.ETC.
                                  I HAVE PROTESTED AND WAS TOLD TO LEAVE.
                                 EVEN THE RABBINATE ( LOOK AT MY DIN TORAH WITH GUR ) 
                                   HAVE TOLD ME IT IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS.
                                 SO RABBINATE PLEASE DO NOT TELL ME TO PROTEST.

                               DEAR VA'AD AND RABBONIM, 
                               YOU HAVE LOST THIS FIGHT. 
                               ALSO YOU DO NOT TEACH THE YOUNGSTERS ABOUT 
                              SHMIRUS HABRIS. I WAS IN A LOCAL MIKVAH AND I SAW A YOUNG
                               BOY PLAYING WITH HIS PENIS, I TOLD HIM YOU MUST NOT
                                TOUCH THERE. HE ANSWERED ME WITH A TOWEL YOU MAY.
                                A GROWN-UP IN THE MIKVAH TOLD ME IT IS A WASTE OF TIME.
                               MY REBBE THE BEIS YISROEL Z.L DID NOT THINK SO.
                               NOW I ONLY GO TO THE MIKVAH IF IT IS EMPTY.
                               ALL OUR TROUBLES COME FROM NOT TEACHING THE CHILDREN 
                                AND YOUNGSTERS WHAT IS SHMIRAS HABRIS.

                                                   

                                               

CHUPAH CARDS

                                 IN LAST WEEKS' NEWS UPDATE 4TH JULY 2013 FAMILY LEITNER
                                SHOWS THEIR IGNORANCE IN JEWISH TRADITION.
                                IT IS NOT JUST A DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW.
                                CHUPAH CARDS HAVE BEEN SENT FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS,
                                 THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO COLLECT CHUPA CARDS.
                                 EVERY BOCHER KNOWS THAT YOU TAKE YOUR CHUPA CARD  IN  
                                 TO YOUR  ROSH YESHIVA OR REBBE ( YOU KNOW HE IS NOT 
                                 GOING TO  COME ) . 
                                 ALSO AFTER RECEIVING THE CHUPA CARD, WHEN MEETING
                                 THE PERSON WE WISH THEM MAZEL TOV.
                                 LUBAVITCH DO NOT EVEN CHANGE THE TEXT OF THE CARD,
                                 JUST THE NAMES.
                                 THE CARD DOES NOT HAVE TO BE LAVISH.
                                 WHY SEND CARDS AT ALL WHEN INVITING A PERSON TO DINNER
                                  JUST KNOCK ON THEIR DOOR.
                                  IF YOU WANT TO SAVE MONEY AT THE WEDDING I CAN GIVE YOU
                                  A  LIST.
                                  THE CAR ,THE WEDDING DRESS,  FINISHING VERY VERY LATE,
                                 THE STREIMEL,  THE BADCHEN,  ETC,  ETC,.
                                  WHEN SENDING A CARD EVEN JUST A PHOTO COPY ( YES IT 
                                  TAKES  TIME ).
                                 BUT YOU HAVE THOUGHT OF THE PERSON AND THAT IS WHAT 
                                 MATTERS.
                                   

                                  
                                                          

JEWISH HELP AGENCY

                                    I RECEIVED IN THE HAMODIA A LEAFLET CALLED TRUSTED  
                                    HOMECARE. 8 HILLCREST AVENUE N.W. 11.
                                    WE HAVE IN STAMFORD HILL SIX OR SEVEN ORGANISATION
                                    TO HELP PEOPLE, IT IS A BIG RACKET. 
                                     THEY ALL CHARGE A BIG FEE FOR HELPING PEOPLE ( I CAN
                                    PROVE THIS ) FILLING IN FORMS AND GIVING ADVICE.
                                    MICHOEL POSEN OF THE AGUDA 97 STAMFORD HILL
                                    ( HE IS  SUPPOSED TO BE OPEN  WITH NINE PEOPLE HELPING 
                                    FILL IN FORMS  AND GIVING ADVICE FROM THE HACKNEY
                                    COUNCIL FREE OF CHARGE.
                                    HE CHARGES PEOPLE £ 1 A MINUTE ( WE ARE A BUNCH OF MUGS) 
                                    JUST TO WRITE YOUR NAME COSTS TWO THREE POUNDS 
                                    STRAIGHT AWAY.
                                   BY THE GOYIM THERE IS A CARERS CENTRE IN DALSTON
                                   TYSSEN  STREET ( I HAVE SENT LOTS OF PEOPLE THERE ) .      
                                   THERE IS ONE MAN I SENT THERE. POSEN CHARGED HIM
                                   £ 250  AND  HE DID NOT GET A PENNY FROM THE COUNCIL.
                                   HACKNEY CARERS CENTER  TYSSEN STREET GOT HIM BACK PAY
                                   FOR TWO YEARS AND DID NOT CHARGE HIM A PENNY.
                                    HE WAS SO PLEASED FOR MY ADVICE AND HELP,
                                    HE PHONED ME UP WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU ?.
                                    I TOLD HIM WHEN YOU MEET SOME ONE IN TROUBLE HELP 
                                   THEM OR SEND THEM TO ME.
                                   IT GOES EVEN FURTHER THE HACKNEY CARERS CENTRE HAVE
                                   LEAFLETS WHICH I SAW AT DR. SPITZER'S SURGERY,
                                   TELLING YOU OF THE FREE HELP AND ADVICE.
                                  THE AGUDA,  BIKUR CHOLIM D'SATMAR. CHIZUK.  
                                  EZRA UMPMARPE,  YAD VOEZER. INTERLINK FOUNDATION,
                                  ALL THESE ORGANISATION'S REFUSED  TO PUT UP THIS LEAFLET
                                  IN THEIR OFFICE.                                 
                                   
                                                            
                                

THERE IS A G=D

                                     THE U.S.A.  ARE BELIEVERS IN G=D AS ON THEIR MONEY IS
                                     WRITTEN  " IN G=D WE TRUST ".
                                     THE INSURANCE COMPANIES ARE BELIEVERS IN G=D. AS WHEN
                                     THEY  DO NOT PAY OUT. 
                                     THEY SAY " IT WAS AN ACT OF G=D". 
                                     WHEN WE LOOK AROUND THE WORLD WE SEE THAT NATIONS
                                     WHO, IN THE PAST HAVE BEHAVED MAN TO MAN WITH 
                                     CRUELTIES  ONE NATION TO AN OTHER
                                     ARE  PAID BACK BY A HIGHER POWER
                                     ( THAT IS G=D I CAN NOT EXPLAIN IT BUT IT IS THERE ).
                                     IT MIGHT TAKE YEARS AND YEARS BY THE ACT OF G=D TO GET
                                     PAID BACK.
                                     THE CHOFETZ CHAYIM SAID: ( HE DIED A VERY OLD MAN )                               
                                     " NOT  ONLY NATIONS AND COUNTRIES GET PAID  BACK BUT
                                     PEOPLE AS WELL".

                                    P. S.
                                    I AM JUST WAITING TO SEE HOW Y.M.S. GERMANY WILL GET
                                    PAID BACK ( THEY HAVE BEEN MADE READY AS  G=D  HAS  
                                    UNITED  EAST AND WEST ( AS THEY WERE BY HITLER Y.M.S. ) . 
                                    THEY ASKED THE JEWS BEFORE KILLING THEM,WHERE IS YOU
                                    G=D ?.
                                   
                                  

KOL BONAICH V DEMONSTRATION

                                  IN LAST WEEKS' JEWISH TRIBUNE  27 JUNE 2013 I WAS READING 
                                 ABOUT  RABBI OSHER SHAPIRO AND HIS GROUP KOL BONAICH.
                                 I THINK IF THE MONEY SPENT ON THE DEMONSTRATION
                                 IN  BRUSSELS ON THE 1ST OF JULY 2013,
                                 AGAINST THE DRAFTING INTO THE ISRAELI ARMY
                                YESHIVA  BOCHRIM WAS GIVEN TO HIM, 
                                 IT WOULD ACHIEVE  MUCH MORE.
                                 AS LOTS OF  FRUM HEIMSHE BOCHRIM IN ISRAEL ARE 
                                 REJECTED BY YESHIVES IN ISRAEL AND EVEN IN THE
                                 REST OF THE  WORLD.
                                 (  IF THEY WILL NOT TOW THE PARTY LINE COMPLETELY )
                                THEY CAN BE GOOD LEARNERS,THESE BOYS DO NOT FIND 
                                SUITABLE PLACEMENT.
                                RABBI OSHER SAYS LOTS OF PROBLEMS IN THE YESHIVA WORLD
                                ARE OF OUR OWN MAKING,
                                 GIVE ME THE MONEY SPENT ON  THE DEMONSTRATION .
                                BUT THESE PEOPLE FEEL THAT BY DEMONSTRATING AGAINST
                                SOMEONE ELSE MAKES THEM KOSHER.
                                 P, S.
                                 ( IF THEY REALLY WANT TO GET THEIR MESSAGE OVER TO THE
                                  ISRAELI GOVERNMENT  LETS ALL BOYCOTT TRAVELLING TO 
                                  ISRAEL FOR A YEAR OR TWO, THIS WOULD HURT THEM AND
                                 GET A LOT OF FREE PUBLICITY FOR THE CAUSE. BUT OUR  YIDEN
                                 ALMOST NEVER WANT TO RESTRICT THEMSELVES ) .  

THE CHIEF RABBI

                                    JOE LOBENSTEIN IS SURPRISED  AND DISAPPOINTED,
                                   AT THE CHIEF RABBI   JONATHAN SACKS FAREWELL ADDRESS 
                                   IN CENTRAL LONDON THIS WEEK.
                                   A PERSON WHO FEELS HONOURED WITH  THE PRINCE OF WALES'
                                   PRESENCE          ( ASK LADY DIANA PRINCESS OF WALES ).
                                   AND DESCRIBING HIS ACHIEVEMENTS OVER THE PAST 
                                  22 YEARS ?,
                                   CONTINUING ASSIMILATION AND OUT MARRIAGE ?
                                   THERE WILL NOT BE ANTI-SEMITES ,OR SUPPORT FOR ZIONISM.
                                    RABBI SACKS OR UNITED SYNAGOGUES AND THE BOARD OF 
                                   DEPUTIES,
                                  THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE CHAREIDI COMMUNITY       
                                  AND THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS.
                                    I DID THE BEST JOB OF OUTREACH TO THE ENGLISH JEWISH
                                   PEOPLE WHEN I MADE MY TELEVISION PROGRAM LAST YEAR.
                                    " TWO JEWS ON A CRUISE "
                                   EXPLAINING HOW A FRUM JEW  REALLY THINKS.
                                   PLEASE RABBI SACKS WHEN YOU RETIRE, RETIRE ! !  !
                                   YOUR WAY IS NO SOURCE OF LIGHT.
                                   PLEASE JOE DO NOT GO TO ANY BOARD OF DEPUTIES MEETINGS
                                   OR FUNCTIONS .
                                   THEY ARE FAR, FAR, AWAY FROM UNDERSTANDING A FRUM
                                  JEW.
                                   AS THE LATE RABBI PADWAH SAID YEARS AGO.  

DEAFENING MUSIC

                                  BEN YITZCHOK WRITES IN LAST WEEKS' JEWISH TRIBUNE: 
                                  27/6/2013 ABOUT DAMAGING MUSIC AT THE HEIMISHE
                                  CHASSENES.
                                  (  WE YIDEN HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING THE GOYIM DO ? )      
                                  LET ME TELL YOU BEN YITZCHOK, THAT THE RABBONIM, 
                                 AND THE DOCTORS, ALSO LAY LEADERS, OF OUR COMMUNITY.
                                  DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE GENERAL PUBLIC.
                                  MY TWIN BROTHER HAS ADVISED ME, TO DO WHAT HE DOES,
                                  WHEN YOU GO TO CHASSENES TAKE WITH  EAR PLUGS.
                                 SO THAT YOU DO NOT DAMAGE YOUR HEARING.                             

AN EHRLICHE YID

SHABBOS

REBBE AND RABBI

                              THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN  A RABBI AND A REBBE.
                              A RABBI IS ONE WHO TEACHES PEOPLE WHEN THEY COME TO HIM
                              AND WILL ANSWER  QUESTIONS WHEN THEY ARE PUT TO HIM.
                              A REBBE DOES NOT WAIT FOR PEOPLE TO COME TO HIM
                              HE REACHES OUT AMONG THE PEOPLE AND TRIES TO AWAKEN AND
                              INSPIRE THEM AND BRING THEM CLOSER TO THEIR FAITH.
                              CHASSIDIM WHOSE SOULS ARE BOUND UP AS ONE WITH THEIR REBBE.
                              THIS IS WHAT IS NEEDED TO-DAY,
                              I TOLD A LADY, MY NEIGHBOUR WHO IS NOT A SHOMMER SHABBOS
                              LIKE I AM ,
                              THAT ON FRIDAY NIGHT WHEN  SHE SLEEPS AND I SLEEP WE ARE
                              BOTH SHOMER SHABBOS.
                              ONLY ON SHABBOS  DAY WHEN I DO NOT GO TO THE SHOPS
                              AND SHE DOES WHILE SHE IS DOING SHOPPING SHE IS BREAKING THE
                              SHABBOS AND I AM NOT.
                               BY G=D EVERY MOMENT OF THE SHABBOS IS JUDGED.
                               I ALSO TOLD HER THAT IF SHE GOES SHOPPING ON SHABBOS
                               AND DOES NOT BUY EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS OR WANTS TO BUY
                               BECAUSE TO DAY IS SHABBOS.
                               SHE IS DOING AN EFFORT FOR THE SHABBOS.
                               SHE IS A KIND OF SHOMER SHABOSS, AND HOPEFULLY IN TIME SHE
                               WILL  BECOME  A FULL SHOMER SHABBOS.
                              SHE STRAIGHT AWAY SAID I WANTED TO GO A SECOND TIME TO THE
                              SHOPS TO-DAY, BUT I DID NOT.
                              A REBBE TEACHES THAT BY G=D EVERY EFFORT OF A JEW HAS A
                             VALUE.