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Sunday 27 October 2013

SEXUAL ATTRACTION

I WAS TALKING WITH A FEW YOUNG PEOPLE ABOUT LAST WEEKS SEDRA THAT 
AVROHOM  HAD A CHILD FIRST AT EIGHTY SIX AND THEN  AT NEARLY A HUNDRED.
EVEN IN AVROHOM'S TIME IT WAS CONSIDERED AN ACHIEVEMENT.
THEY SAID THAT A MAN CAN DO IT FOR EVER AN EVER.
I WAS SURPRISED THAT THEY DID  NOT KNOW THE FACTS OF LIFE
AND THAT YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WIFE  WHICH 
DOES NOT INVOLVE  "LADIES AND GENTLEMAN".
ONE OF THESE YOUNG PEOPLE WAS SO SHOCKED THAT HE SAID TO ME YOU CAN TAKE VIAGRA AND GO ON FOR EVER AND EVER.
I SAID TO HIM THAT THE BODY DIES OVER THE YEARS.
 THE REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS OF A MAN DIE BETWEEN 50 AND 70. 
MOST MEN AT SEVENTY DO NOT HAVE OR ARE ABLE TO HAVE A SEXUAL LIFE AS IN THE YOUNGER YEARS.
ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE LIKE ME, YOU HAVE DIABETES TWO.
I WAS ONCE, YEARS AGO BY DAYAN AHARON DOVID DUNNER'S SHIUR THAT A MAN CAN GO ON FOR EVER AND EVER.
I SAID TO HIM THIS IS NOT TRUE AND YOU CAN NOT BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND THIS.
THE WOMAN GET PAST IT AND SO DO THE MAN.
YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND
LOVE AND CARING FOR EACH OTHER, SEX ALONE IS A MISTAKE TO BE AN 
ATTRACTION BECAUSE THIS DIES LONG,LONG, BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY DIE.
WE HAD A DR BY THE SHIUR AT THAT TIME, DR SPITZER AND HE CONFIRMED WHAT I SAID.
I WAS SURPRISED AT THE IGNORANCE OF SO MANY YOUNG AND OLDER PEOPLE
 THE BOTTOM LINE IS DO NOT BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE AROUND SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

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