JEWISH MARRIAGE

IN THE  JEWISH  MARRIAGE CEREMONY WE MAKE A BLESSINGS FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM UNDER THE CHUPAH, ALSO THE WHOLE SEVEN DAYS OF THE SHEVA BROCHES.
THE REASON, SEX IN THE MARRIAGE IS NOT EVEN TOUCHED UPON, ONLY IN THE LAST OF THE SEVEN BROCHES WE MENTION:
PLEASURE, DELIGHT, LOVE, BROTHERHOOD, PEACE AND COMPANIONSHIP.
RABBI SHMUEL WOSSNER TOLD ME ONCE THAT WE HAVE TO SAY THIS BROCHE
AND IT IS VERY IMPORTANT.
IF YOU DO NOT ASK THIS FROM THE RIBONO SHEL OLAM,
THAT IN YOUR MARRIAGE YOU SHOULD HAVE LOVE, BROTHERHOOD AND PEACE
FROM YOUR PARTNER,
THEN IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU DESIRE YOUR PARTNER,
YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TRUE LOVE.
AS TRUE LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS A PRESENT FROM G=D.                  
 ( TO LEARN TO LOVE G=D )
AND WITHOUT YOU PRAYING AND REQUESTING IT,YOU WILL NEVER GET IT.
HAVING LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER IS BROUGHT THROUGH THE THIRD PARTNER IN A MARRIAGE. THAT IS G=D ! !
THAT IS WHY RABBIS DANCE A MITZVAH DANCE.
THEY ARE NOT ONLY DANCING FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM, ( BUT AT THE THIRD PARTY PRESENT ) G=D WHO IS PRESENT AT EVERY MARRIAGE.
THEY ARE PRAYING  THAT G=D WILL PUT INTO THIS MARRIAGE LOVE, BROTHERHOOD AND PEACE.
THE YETZER HORAH HAS MADE THE MITZVAH DANCE INTO ENTERTAINMENT
AND MARRIAGE INTO SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP.
 WHAT A PITY! ! !