MARRIAGE

WE NEED TO RESTRUCTURE OUR ATTITUDE

TO WHEN BOYS AND GIRLS GET MARRIED. 

I AM TALKING ABOUT ORTHODOX FRUM JEWISH YOUNGSTERS.

A YID DOES NOT GET MARRIED THE SAME WAY THAT A GOY DOES,

BECAUSE HE OR SHE HAS CERTAIN DESIRES IN LIFE FOR  "LADIES AND GENTLEMEN".

BUT A YIDDSHE BOY AND GIRL GET MARRIED 

FOR PARTNERSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP IN LIFE, TO GET TO A HIGHER LEVEL.

THAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE AND LIVING TOGETHER

HAVING A HOUSE OF LOVE AND RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER.

THAT THEIR FUTURE CHILDREN SEE THIS AND LEARN.

 

IN EVERY MARRIAGE THERE IS " LADIES AND GENTLEMEN ".

BUT TO GET MARRIED FOR THAT PURPOSE ALONE IS NOT YIDISH,

IT WILL NOT PROTECT YOU FROM GOING THE WRONG WAY

AS THESE FEELINGS FALL AWAY AS YOU GET OLDER. 

SOMETIMES THEY DIE AWAY IN YOUR OLDER YEARS.

IF YOU HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT BY YOUR PARENTS AND RABBIS THIS

IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS,

YOU FIND LOTS OF OLDER AND EVEN YOUNG MARRIED COUPLES

WHO DO NOT GET ALONG. 

 THEY GET DIVORCED NOT JUST ONCE BUT TWICE OR EVEN MORE TIMES.

SEX IS NOT LOVE AND GIVING YOUR CHILD A PARTNER FOR THIS PURPOSE ALONE WILL NOT PROTECT THEM THAT THEY DO NOT WONDER.

 

WE INVOLVE RABBIS AND LAY LEADERS IN A JOB THAT IS NOT THEIRS.

PARENTS NEED TO SHOW THE CHILDREN HOW THEY LOVE AND CARE FOR EACH OTHER.

LOVE IS A PARTNERSHIP OF FRIENDSHIP AND CARING.

THEN B"H THEY WILL NOT HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THEIR CHILDREN.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER IS:

WE DO THE SAME THINGS AS GOYIM,

BUT WE ARE YIDEN ! ! 

                                  GABY LOCK

RELATIONSH​IPS

LIKE ONE HAND NEVER LIES TO THE OTHER.

THE SAME HAS TO BE WITH HUSBAND AND WIFE,

COMPLETE TRUST IN ONE ANOTHER.

AND DISCUSSING EVERYTHING WITH EACH OTHER

BRINGS TRUE LOVE

WHICH IS NOT FISICAL BUT MENTAL.

IT BRINGS TRUE LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER.

THEN YOU CAN LEARN TO LOVE G=D.

AS THE AIM OF LOVE IN THIS WORLD IS TO

LEARN TO LOVE G=D.

ELECTIONS

I LISTEN TO KOL CHAI RADIO IN ENGLAND.

I ALSO READ THE JEWISH NEWSPAPERS.

I AM NOT A SATMARER.

I THINK THAT THE ONLY WAY WE CAN GET SOME GOOD OUTCOME

FOR THE ORTHODOX JEWISH PEOPLE IN ISRAEL

IS BY FIGHTING THE SECULAR JEWS IN THE KNESSET.

AS ONE PARTY WITH ONE AIM TO HELP TORAH JEWS .

 

BUT THE INFIGHTING IN ALL THE PARTIES

( THE SECULARS LET THEM FIGHT )

THE ORTHODOX RELIGIOUS PARTIES

MAKE ME SICK, AS THEY DO NOT WANT TO HELP THE TORAH JEWS

AND I PRAY TO G=D THAT THEY SHOULD NOT GET ONE SEAT.

G=D WILL HELP THEM AGAINST THE SECULARS

WHEN ALL THE ORTHODOX JEWS UNITE WITH ONE AIM,

TO HELP THE TORAH JEWS IN ISRAEL.

I AM NOT SURPRISED SO MANY FRUM JEWS DO NOT VOTE.

GABY LOCK

APOLOGY

IN LAST WEEK'S JEWISH TRIBUNE 25 OCTOBER 2012

THE JEWISH TRIBUNE EXPRESSES SINCERE

APOLOGIES FOR ALLOWING THE PUBLICATION

OF A LETTER THAT APPEARED LAST WEEK

UNDER THE HEADING:

 

" HUSBAND'S CONDUCT TOWARDS WIVES"

HERE IS PART OF THE LETTER.

THEY APOLOGIES WHEN THEY WRITE THE TRUTH.

HOW ABOUT AN ARTICLE ON HOW WIVES

SHOULD TREAT THEIR HUSBANDS ? ? ! !

MANY WOMEN VIVIDLY REMIND ME

OF MY FARMING DAYS,OF PAMPERED BREEDING SOWS.

THEY THINK THAT BY SIMPLY PRODUCING CHILDREN

THEY FULFIL THEIR DUTY ( OR MITZVAH ).

THEIR HUSBANDS DO THE CHORES NORMALLY

EXPECTED OF WOMEN.

THEN THEY WONDER WHEN THE CHILDREN DRIFT

AWAY FROM YIDISHKEIT.

WHAT LOVE AND HAPPINESS DO THEY SEE FROM THE

PARENTS TO EACH OTHER ? ?

 

PARENTS HAVE TO KNOW THEY ARE AN EXAMPLE TO CHILDREN

AS RABBI MOSHE SCHWAB ZTL OF GATESHEAD

USED TO SAY TO THE SEMINARY GIRLS.

" IF YOU TREAT HIM LIKE A KING,HE WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN.

 

GABY LOCK

PRAYER

OPEN UP ALL THE JEWISH ORTHODOX PAPERS,

FULL OF ADVERTS AND LETTERS.

GIVE MONEY FOR THIS AND THAT

AND THEY WILL PRAY FOR YOU FOR A GOOD YEAR.

HAVE THEY FORGOTTEN WHAT IS WRITTEN:

" HASHEM IS CLOSE TO ALL WHO CALL UPON HIM

TO ALL WHO CALL UPON HIM SINCERELY."

IN SIMPLE LANGUAGE,

G=D LISTENS TO EVERYONE'S PRAYERS.

 

I HAVE OFTEN PRAYED TO G=D PERSONALLY

AND I CAN TELL YOU HE HAS HELPED ME,

HE STANDS ON MY SIDE TO PROTECT ME.

BUT WHAT HURTS ME EVEN MORE THEN THIS STUPIDITY

OF PEOPLE IS THAT THEY THINK THIS ONE OR THAT ONE

CAN HELP YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF.

THEY CARE MORE ABOUT DOING THIS MITZVAH FRUMER

OR THAT MITZVAH MORE PERFECT BETWEEN MAN AND G=D.

BUT WHEN IT COMES TO TREATING HUMAN BEINGS,

THEIR FELLOW JEW HONESTLY ( ASK THE BETH DIN OF KEDASSIA )

OR EVEN JUST TO TALK TO THEM IN A RESPECTIVE WAY,

G=D IS COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN.

 

I SOMETIMES THINK THAT EVEN THE KEDASSIA

AND THE RABBONIM HAVE FORGOTTEN THAT THERE IS A G=D

WHO WATCHES AND WAITS FOR YOU TO REPENT.

GABY LOCK

P.S. THESE ARE WORDS FROM MY HEART ! !

THE JEWISH MOTHER

READING THE JEWISH NEWS 13 SEPTEMBER 2012

ROSH HASHANAH MYSTERY MUM.

FROM THE QUESTIONS YOU CAN SEE THAT THE

UNITED SYN. HAVE A BIG PROBLEM.

HOW DO I GET THE BEST SEAT AT SHUL FOR ROSH HASHANAH ?

WHAT ABOUT THE WHOLE YEAR ROUND ?

IN A FEW YEARS YOU WILL HAVE PLENTY OF PLACE.

WHEN ALL OR NEARLY ALL YOUR CHILDREN WILL MARRY OUT.

 

WHAT A STUPID QUESTION ! !

WHAT CLOTHES ARE IN FOR WEARING AT SHUL?

IN CHURCH YOU HAVE CLOTHES THAT ARE IN AND OUT.

HOW DO I GET THE KIDS EXCITED ABOUT ROSH HASHANAH ?

WAKE UP YOUR KIDS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN BEING JEWISH.

AND THE SAME ANSWER GOES FOR THE QUESTION:

HOW DO I GET MY CHILDREN TO GO TO SHUL TWO DAYS IN A ROW ?

ON THE LAST TWO QUESTIONS I CAN SEE THAT THIS

HOUSEHOLD, INCLUDING THE JEWISH MOTHER,

NEED TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL TO LEARN WHAT A JEW IS ALL ABOUT.

THIS IS WHAT I EXPLAIN ON MY TELEVISION PROGRAM:

" TWO JEWS ON A CRUISE"

LIKE THE P.M. SAYS: EDUCATION, EDUCATION, EDUCATION,

GABY LOCK.

THE CHEIF RABBI

IN THE CHIEF RABBI,S ROSH HASHANAH TELEVISION PROGRAM
HE MEETS RICHARD DAWKINS
THERE IS ONE QUESTION I HAVE TO ASK
BOTH OF THEM.
IN BELIEVE I DO NOT HAVE TO UNDERSTAND G=D.
 I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE BEGINNING OF THE WORLD
THAT HAS NO BEGINNING OR END.
RICHARD DAWKINS AND THE CHIEF RABBI
CAN NOT EXPLAIN THIS.
I AS A JEW BELIEVE IN G=D EVEN THOUGH I CAN NOT EXPLAIN THIS.
RICHARD DAWKINS WHO DOES NOT BELIEVE IN G=D
ALSO HAS NO EXPLANATION OF THE BEGINNING OF THE WORLD.
                                                                              GABY LOCK

THIS IS NOT YIDDISHKITE

ADVERT FROM THE OFFICE OF THE U.O.H.C.
FAMILIES GOING TO TASHLICH TOGETHER HAS BEEN THE HIGHLIGHT
OF YIDDISHE FAMILIES FOR GENERATIONS.
HOW WE PRACTICE TZENIOUS AND BRING A PROPER YIDISHKEIT INTO OUR
CHILDREN HAS BEEN AN ARGUMENT FOR GENERATIONS.
I DO NOT THINK THAT MEN ON ONE SIDE OF THE ROAD AND LADIES
ON THE OTHER IS A WAY TO BRING IN YIDISHKEIT.
( WHAT NEXT  ? A BIG MECHIETZA IN THE MIDDLE OF A CHUPA ? )
THIS WAS PRACTISED IN POLAND BEFORE THE WAR .
THE LATE RABBITZEHN YUDITH GRUNFELD TOLD ME
HOW YIDDISHKEIT  LOOKED THERE.

TO BRING YIDDISKEIT INTO OUR CHILDREN ,THEY NEED TO
SEE AND PRACTISE A GOOD FAMILY RELATIONSHIP WITH TATTY AND MUMMY.
ON ROSH  HASHANA   IT IS  NOT  INAPPROPRIATE
BUT APPROPRIATE FOR FAMILIES TO SPEND A LITTLE TIME AS ONE  FAMILY.
AS THE LEV SIMCH TOLD ME, " A WIFE IS THE FOUNDATION OF A YIDDISHE HOUSE."
WE DO NOT LOOK AT A WIFE THE WAY GOYIM LOOK AT A WOMAN

       GABY LOCK

SELF CONTROL

YITZCHOCK LEVY WRITES IN THE LETTER PAGE OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE
SEPTEMBER 6 2012:
OVERPRICED FLIGHTS TO ERETZ YISROEL.

MR LEVY ,THEY WANT US TO SEND THE CHILDREN TO LIVE IN ERETZ YISROEL
BUT THE RELIGOUS PARTIES MAKE NO EFFORT TO FORCE THE GOVERNMENT
TO MAKE CHEAPER FLIGHTS. SO THAT I CAN GO AND SEE MY CHILDREN AND
GRANDCHILDREN MORE THAN ONCE A YEAR.  ( SOME PEOPLE CAN NOT AFFORD EVEN THAT ).
WHAT HAS HAPPENED LOTS OF FAMILIES HAVE LEFT THE COUNTRY.

ON THE INTERNET BESIDES SHMUTZ THERE ARE LOTS OF GOOD THINGS SUCH AS
SKYPE.
BUT THESE RABBONIM DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT .
I AM PLEASED THAT TELEPHONE CHARGES HAVE COME DOWN AND SOMETIMES
ARE EVEN FREE.
A FEW YEARS AGO WHEN I STILL HAD THE RADIO STATION
AND MEAT PRICES WENT UP AND UP
I WANTED TO MAKE A  BOYCOTT OF MEAT FOR TWO WEEKS.
IF WE MAKE A BOYCOTT OF NOT TRAVELING TO ERETZ YISROEL
FOR A YEAR OR EVEN HALF A YEAR,
WE WILL SOON SEE THE PRICES COME DOWN.
THE BOYCOTT OF MEAT DID NOT WORK
BECAUSE  PEOPLE ARE SO SPOILED THEY COULD NOT GO WITHOUT MEAT
FOR A WEEK OR TWO.
THE SAME IS WITH CHASSIDIM AND PARENTS TRAVELING TO ERETZ YISROEL.

AND AS SOON AS THE RABBONIM WERE SCARED OF MY RADIO STATION
FOR TELLING THE TRUTH,
THEY EMPLOYED PEOPLE TO GET IT CLOSED DOWN.
COUNTRIES AND RABBONIM ARE SCARED OF THE TRUTH.
SOMEBODY TOLD ME OFF FOR MAKING THE PROGRAM FOR TELEVISION
" TWO JEWS ON A CRUISE".
I ASKED HIM WHAT RIGHT DID YOU AND YOUR WIFE HAVE TO
WATCH TELEVISION ? ?

AND THE SAME WILL BE WITH THE INTERNET ASSIFA OR NO ASSIFA
THE RABBONIM  AND RABBIS HAVE  NOT TAUGHT OUR PEOPLE TO
CONTROL THEMSELVES BETWEEN RIGHT AND WRONG 
                                                                            GABY LOCK
                                                                             gaby5706@gmail.com

AFTER THE ASSIFA

I HAVE NEVER READ SUCH A BRILLIANT ARTICLE IN THE " HERE AND THERE"
OF THE JEWISH TRIBUNE 6 SEPTEMBER 2012.

JOE WRITES:
NOW THAT IT IS ALL OVER , BAR THE SHOUTING,LET US HONESTLY CONSIDER
WHETHER THE PROBLEM OF THOSE WHO
" STRAY FROM THE PATH "
HAS BEEN FULLY ERADICATED BY THROWING THE INTERNET ON THE GARBAGE HEAP.

FIRSTLY, LET US RECOGNISE THE FACT THAT THE PROBLEM
OF THOSE WHO DIGRESS, EXISTED LONG BEFORE THE INTERNET
AND EVEN NOW,IT WOULD BE SHORT-SIGHTED TO ASSUME
THAT EVERY REBELLING AGAINST THE LIFESTYLE OF EHRLICHER PARENTS
IS DUE TO THE INTERNET.

WE HAVE TO ASK OURSELVES:
HAVE THE PARENTS GOT THE RIGHT PERSONAL CONTACT WITH EACH AND
EVERY ONE OF THEIR CHILDREN  ? ?
FATHER AND MOTHER, WHEN HAVE YOU HAD A CASUAL CHIT CHAT WITH YOUR CHILDREN
HOW DO YOU PARENTS FASHION THEIR LIFE TOGETHER " SHREIEREI " AND ARGUMENTS
WHICH WILL MAKE CHILDREN HAVE A BAD EXPERIENCE AND ATMOSPHERE OF THE HOME.
DO THE CHILDREN FEEL WANTED AND NOT A BURDEN ON THE PARENTS ? ? ?

IT IS A PITY THAT THIS WEEK'S ASSIFA AND GEDOLEI YISROEL DID NOT
CONCENTRATE ON THESE POINTS ! !
ON THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR IN KEEPING ONE'S CHILDREN WITHIN THE TORAH
FRAMEWORK, IS TO SHOW THEM LOVE ! ! AND WARMTH AS WELL AS
UNDERSTANDING OF THEIR INNER PROBLEMS.
                                                                GABY LOCK
                                                                gaby5706@gmail.com