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Showing posts with label TORAH. Show all posts
Showing posts with label TORAH. Show all posts

Monday 26 December 2011

QUESTIONS

VIDEO: How To Help Our Children Go From OK To Great [Mordechai Weinberger LCSW]
(Monday, December 26th, 2011)
[VIDEO IN EXTENDED ARTICLE]
Mordechai Weinberger LCSW, along with Dr. Efrayim Nudman, M.D. Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at Cornell Medical College, Former Chief of Inpatient Psychiatric service at New York Presbyterian Hospital addressed these questions that were emailed to him:
1: All my life in Yeshiva I watched friends of mine just as smart as me make it and I somehow never made it. Now that I am working, I am finding the same story happening again. I am working just as hard as my co worker and yet he gets the raise and I don’t. Can you please tell me what I am doing wrong?
2: I want to get close to a certain group of friends. The problem is that I don’t like the same things they do. Is there anyway I can still get into this group?
3: I have a simple question to ask but I have no one to turn to, so I am asking you and hopefully you can help me. I come from a very messed up background. I can’t turn to my parents for help; I have to parent them. I am newly married and my cooking is terrible. After a few months of marriage my husband opened up to me and asked me to call his mother for recipes. I feel so embarrassed that I can’t do it. I am pretty sure I will never be a good cook because it’s not in my genes. I am watching this little problem grow into a huge fight every time he asks me to make something new. Is there any way I can have my husband accept my limitations and to learn to focus on my positive strengths?
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/Video+Section/112640/VIDEO%3A-How-To-Help-Our-Children-Go-From-OK-To-Great-%5BMordechai-Weinberger-LCSW%5D.html


GABY LOCK SAYS:
READING THIS ARTICLE ABOVE IN YESHIVA WORLD:
I AM STARTING TO UNDERSTAND  THAT THESE PEOPLE
HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE DUTY OF A JEWISH PERSON IS
AND WHY G=D MADE THIS WORLD.
IN THIS WORLD YOU HAVE MADE IT WHEN YOU KEEP THE TORAH
WITH THE QUALITIES G=D GAVE YOU.

IF YOUR FRIEND HAS A RAISE, AND YOU DO NOT,
THAT'S THE WAY G=D WANTS IT TO BE.
YOU HAVE MADE IT WITHOUT THE RAISE. YOU ARE NO MORE OR LESS,
THIS WORLD IS A TEST GROUND THAT'S WHAT YIDDISHKEIT IS ABOUT.
THE WOMAN WHO CAN COOK IS NO MORE OR LESS THEN YOU.
OVERCOMING THE TESTS IN LIFE WITH THE QUALITIES YOU HAVE
THAT'S WHAT JEWISH  LIFE IS ABOUT.
G=D WILL JUDGE IF YOU HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL OR NOT.

Friday 23 December 2011

REV CHAIM STEIN ZATZAL

As the word spread, people from all over began streaming to his door. Cholim with serious illnesses from around the world, who were being treated at the nearby Cleveland Clinic, would make it a point to travel to Wickliffe for a brocha from Rav Chaim. A Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok chossid from Yerushalayim once came to Rav Chaim with his child, who was suffering from a serious heart defect. As they sat around the Rosh Yeshiva’s table, the rebbetzin brought out some drinks and refreshments, while the Rosh Yeshiva offered his heartfelt brachos and divrei chizuk. Rav Chaim took a sip from his glass. The chossid politely requested that the Rosh Yeshiva allow him and his son to partake from the shirayim left over in Rav Chaim’s glass. With a broad smile, Rav Chaim graciously acquiesced. He knew how much this meant to this poor, suffering father.
Rav Chaim would say that the unprecedented kibbutz galuyos that exists in America today is an overly positive phenomenon. He would note how all of the unique groups in Klal Yisroel ultimately enhance each other by contributing their individual qualities. He said that until he came to America, he never experienced the uplifting nature of eating Shalosh Se’udos as a group. “The concept of eating together with dibbuk chaverim is something we’ve acquired from the chassidim,” he would say.
Rav Chaim had a keen understanding of how to reach the heart of all types of yidden, regardless of their background. He was fond of relating an innovative teitch from the saintly Belzer Rav zt”l, on the words of the possuk, “S’mach Zevulun betzeisecha v’yissochor be’ohalecha.” When can Zevulun rejoice in his financial success; when he himself is a Yissochor in his own tent.
When people would ask for segulos, he would say that the only protection in the world is Torah and chesed. “We are currently in the era of ikvesa dimeshicha,” he would say. The gemara says; what should a person do to protect themselves from the suffering of Chevlei Moshiach. Ya’asok BeTorah ugemilus chasodim. The only way to protect our families and our children from the pervasive influences of the street is through learning Torah and performing chesed. The only defense against the unbearable tragedies of our time is to acquire these powerful zechusim.

GABY LOCK SAYS:
THIS IS WHAT IS MISSING  BY US YIDDEN TO DAY.
THE FRUM PERSON WANTS TO FORCE THE NOT-FRUM PERSON
AND THE NOT-FRUM PERSON WANTS TO FORCE THE FRUM PERSON.
AS A FRUM PERSON I WANT MY WAY.
BUT I HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE NOT-FRUM PERSON WANTS HIS WAY.
THE FIRST MOVE IS TO UNDERSTANDING THAT WE ARE ONE NATION
AND  LEARN A BIT OF LOVING EACH OTHER.
 IT SHOULD NOT BE LIKE THE PAST WHEN THE GOYIM HATED US
THE FRUM PEOPLE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE NOT-FRUM PEOPLE
AS THEY  HAVE NEVER LEARNED TORAH.
THE NOT-FRUM  PEOPLE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE FRUM PEOPLE,
 THAT WE ARE JEWS AND WE HAVE  TO KEEP THE TORAH.
AT  LEAST LEARN TORAH AND FIND OUT WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT.

Thursday 15 December 2011

MEN AND WOMEN

“Reb Elyashiv feels that it is laudable for a private company to separate men and women, but it is impossible to obligate a public company to adopt this standard.  You can attempt to persuade them, you can explain to them that it is a wise financial move, but you cannot force a public company to do something like this,” said Chaim Cohen, a long time aide to Reb Elyashiv.

RAB ELYASHIV HAS HIS GUIDELINES FROM THE TORAH.
IF HE SAYS YOU CAN NOT OBLIGATE A PUBLIC COMPANY
TO ADOPT THIS STANDARD,
WHICH MEANS TO GO WITHIN THE LINE OF THE LAW,
BUT THE TORAH LAW DOES NOT OBLIGATE A COMPANY TO DO THIS.
OUR TZNIUS AND YIDDISHKEIT COMES FROM THE TORAH
AND NOT FROM ZEALOTS.

Wednesday 14 December 2011

YIDDISHKEI​T

Yiddishkeit is keeping the Torah that's what made us into Jews.
On the Internet you can see things
that a Jewish person should not watch.
The same is in newspapers etc, etc,.


A frum Jew is a person who learns Torah and that gets him or her a clean mind.
A person in his lifetime will go up and down
but this does not make a person less Jewish
as that is the purpose of life.
To overcome your tests.

IT IS INTERESTING THAT ON THE INTERNET YOU GET WEB SITES VIDEOS
FROM EVERY FRUM ORGANISATION  AND SPECIALLY CHASSIDIC ONES.
THE RABBONIM AND RABBIS PUT UP NOTICES
YOU SHOULD NOT WATCH INTERNET.
BUT THE INTERNET IS FULL OF THEM? ?

Sunday 13 November 2011

THE JEWISH PEOPLE

I HAVE BEEN AWAY FOR A FEW WEEKS,
TRAVELING AND MEETING JEWISH PEOPLE,

FRUM, AND NOT FRUM,
RELIGIOUS, AND NOT RELIGIOUS,

ONE THING THAT THEY HAVE IN COMMON IS
THE IGNORANCE OF WHAT IS A JEW.

WHAT MAKES US INTO A JEWISH NATION IS
THAT WE HAVE A SAYING IN THE JEWISH WORLD,
I HEARD THIS FROM MY REBBE ZT,L
"IF YOU DO NOT LEARN, YOU DO NOT KNOW ".
IF YOU DO NOT LEARN HOW TO DRIVE A CAR
YOU CAN NOT DRIVE, EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN.
IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU  ARE NOT ORTHODOX,CHASIDISH.
OR OTHERWISE. IF YOU DO NOT LEARN
YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW TO BE A JEW,
WHAT G=D IS, AND WHAT HE WANTS FROM US.

THAT IS WHY THE NUMBER ONE THING
WE HAVE TO DO IS LEARN TORAH HOW TO BE A JEW.
I SEE LOTS OF RELIGIOUS AND  NON RELIGIOUS JEWS
THINKING THEY ARE PRACTICING THE JEWISH RELIGION
WHICH THEY HAVE LEARNED FROM THEIR FATHERS HOME.
THAT HAS NO CONNECTION TO THE JEWISH RELIGION AT ALL.

Tuesday 13 September 2011

THE RABBIS TELL US

THE RABBIS TELL US THAT JUST LIKE OUR FACES
ARE NOT THE SAME,

OUR MINDS AND BRAINS ARE NOT THE SAME EITHER.
THE QUESTION IS WE ALL KNOW THAT OUR FACES
AND MINDS ARE NOT THE SAME.
THE ANSWER IS:
THAT JUST LIKE OUR FACES ARE NOT THE SAME AND
I DO NOT CARE THAT YOU DO NOT LOOK LIKE ME,
I SHOULD NOT CARE WHEN YOU DO NOT THINK LIKE ME.

IN TO-DAYS JEWISH SOCIETY ORTHODOX OR NONE-ORTHODOX
WE HAVE A TORAH,WHICH TELLS US THE DUTY OF EVERY JEW
AND WHAT HIS PURPOSE IS IN THIS PASSING LIFE.
SOME PEOPLE PUT DOWN CERTAIN RULES AS BEING JEWISH
SUCH AS A DRESS CODE,
OR BEING A HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR.
BUT THIS IS NOT REALLY FROM THE 613 MITZVOS.

I LOOK INTO THE TORAH
AND WITH A DEEPER MIND AND A DIFFERENT FACE
WHAT DOES G=D REALLY WANT FROM ME IN THIS WORLD
AND WHAT IS MY PURPOSE OF LIVING ?
I UNDERSTAND THAT G=D HAS NOT GIVEN THIS DEEPER MIND
TO EVERYONE,BUT I ASK, PLEASE DO NOT DISTURB ME.

Monday 29 August 2011

TORAH

I LOVE LEARNING TORAH,
SHASS AND POSKIM THAT IS

MY BIGGEST DREAM OF LIFE.

IN LAST WEEK'S PARSHA, RE'EH IT STARTS:
" BEHOLD I SET BEFORE YOU A BLESSING AND A CURSE.
THE BLESSING.
IF YOU LISTEN TO THE COMMANDMENTS,
THE CURSE,
IF YOU SHALL NOT  LISTEN TO THE COMMANDMENTS."
RE'EH WRITTEN IN THE SINGULAR,
LIFNEICHEM  WRITTEN IN THE PLURAL.
IF ONE HAS THE OPPORTUNITY  TO REBUKE,
A GROUP ( PLURAL ) THAT WILL PROBABLY NOT LISTEN,
HE SHOULD DO IT REGARDLESS THE UNLIKELY CHANCE
THAT ONE PERSON ( SINGULAR ) MIGHT BE INSPIRED.

THE TORAH TELLS US TO REFRAIN FROM DOING THINGS,
DISTANCE OURSELVES FROM THE PRACTICES OF NON-JEWS.
AN EXAMPLE: IT MAY BE THAT IT IS FORBIDDEN FOR US TO
PLANT TREES TO DECORATE OUR SHULS,
BECAUSE OF THE PROHIBITION OF FOLLOWING THE
STATUTES OF THE NON-JEWS.

INDEED IN HIS TESHUVOS THE MAHARSHAM RULES
THAT,FOR THIS REASON, IN AREAS WHERE THE NON-JEWS
HAVE SUCH A PRACTICE IT IS FORBIDDEN FOR JEWS TO
PLANT TREES.

MY QUESTION TO THE RABBIS AND RABBONIM,
WHY DO THEY NOT SHOW THE WAY
SPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO HOLIDAYS.
NOT FOLLOWING THE WAY OF THE NON-JEWS.
EVERYTHING I HAVE DONE IS WITH YIREI SHAMAYIM
AND MESIRUS NEFESH OF SELF SACRIFICE
TO PASS ON THE MESSAGE OF G=D
OF TORAH  AND MITZVOS,
TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE. 

Friday 19 August 2011

MOSHIACH


I I AM WAITING FOR THE MOSHIACH, YOU KNOW WHY?
BECAUSE I AM WAITING WHEN JEWISH PEOPLE WILL BE ONE

NOT ONLY ORTHODOX AND NON ORTHODOX, BUT ORTHODOX AND ORTHTODOX,
LITVISHER AND CASSIDIM
SEFARDIM AND ASHKANEZIM.
ONE CHASSIDC ORGANISATION WITH THE OTHER.

THEY WILL ALL SEE THAT THE MAIN AIM IN LIFE IS TO BELIEVE
AND PRAY, DO MITZVOS AND LEARN TORAH FOR HASHEM.
AS IS WRITTEN:
HASHEM WILL GIVE MIGHT TO HIS PEOPLE,
HASHEM WILL BLESS HIS PEOPLE WITH PEACE.

AS THE BEIS YISROEL OF GUR TOLD ME
THAT THE ONLY WAY TO OVERCOME THE YETZER HORAH
IS THROUGH TORAH LEARNING AND NOTHING ELSE.
THE YETZER HORAH WILL LET YOU DRESS AND DO ANY MITZVOS
YOU LIKE EXCEPT FOR TORAH LEARNING.
THE MORE TORAH LEARNING WE HAVE THE MORE PEACE
WE HAVE AMONGST OURSELVES.
THE NEARER WE GET TO THE MOSHIACH.

THERE IS NO WAY TO BRING JEWS TO BE ONE
ONLY THROUGH TORAH LEARNING, EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY.
TO PASS THAT ON TO YOUR CHILDREN WITH G=D;S HELP.
IF YOU SEE THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE LEARNING TORAH
AND PASSING THAT ON TO YOUR  GRAND CHILDREN,
THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A PLACE BY G=D.
THE MAIN AIM IN MY LIFE IS TO SPREAD HOW IMPORTANT
TORAH LEARNING IS TO G=D.

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHICH MEDIA YOU USE TO GET THIS
MESSAGE OVER TO ORTHODOX JEWS AND NON ORTHODOX JEWS.
PASSING ON G=D'S MESSAGE ( IN WHAT EVER WAY )
IS A KIDDUSH HASHEM .

Friday 12 August 2011

MY LEARNING TORAH

THE MUSSAR SEFORIM SAY THAT IF YOU SEE THAT YOUR YETZER HORAH
PUTS A LOT OF EMPHASIS AND DISTURBS YOU ON DOING A CERTAIN MITZVAH.

YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT THIS MITZVAH HAS GREAT VALUE IN HEAVEN FOR YOU.
SOMEONE ONCE SAID TO ME:  " NO WONDER YOU LEARN ,
YOU AND YOUR TWIN BROTHER HAVE A MAD DESIRE TO LEARN".
I TOLD HIM,"  WE PRAYED VERY HARD FOR THIS THAT WE SHOULD LOVE TORAH LEARNING AND WENT TO GEDOLEI YISROEL FOR BROCHOS."

WE DID NOT ALWAYS HAVE THIS AND WE PRAYED EVERY DAY IN OUR PRAYERS.
" HASHEM,OUR G=D SWEETEN THE WORDS OF YOUR TORAH IN OUR MOUTH "
THIS I ALSO THANK G=D PLANTED INTO MY CHILDREN.

HOW DO I KNOW THAT MY TORAH LEARNING HAS A GREAT VALUE IN HEAVEN ?
BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE SPECIALLY IN SATMAR
WHEN THEY WANT TO GET EVEN WITH YOU FOR THE TRUTHFUL TELEVISION PROGRAM
I MADE  WHERE I JUST EXPLAINED TO THE NON-ORTHODOX JEWS WHAT THE DUTY OF A JEW IS.

HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR THE STUPID ALEX STROM FROM THE JEWISH TRIBUNE,
WRITING ABOUT IT , WANTING TO GET EVEN WITH ME ,
NON OF THE FRUMERS WOULD HAVE KNOWN ABOUT IT.
THE ONLY WAY PEOPLE TRY TO GET EVEN WITH  ME IS TO BREAK  MY  TORAH SHIURIM.
THIS I PRAY TO G=D THEY WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO.
MY TORAH MUST HAVE A GREAT PLACE IN HEAVEN
AND THAT IS MY TEST MAY G=D HELP ME.

Friday 5 August 2011

TORAH

THE TORAH IS THE BOOK WHICH TELLS US WHAT G=D WANTS, FROM THE HUMAN RACE AND THE PURPOSE OF THIS WORLD.
ONLY JEWS , AS IS WRITTEN IN THE TORAH ON MOUNT SINAI WERE THE CHOSEN PEOPLE ,( I DO NOT KNOW WHY ),

HAVE A COMMITMENT FROM G=D,TO KEEP THE 613 MITZVOS WRITTEN IN THE TORAH.

BUT EVERYBODY HAS A COMMITMENT, TO BELIEVE THAT THE WORLD IS G=D'S AND HE WANTS US TO LIVE A LIFE OF BELIEVING .
BUT THE HUMAN RACE, JEWS AND NON JEWS, WANT SECURITY AND CAN NOT BELIEVE IN SOMETHING THEY CANT SEE.
AND THE MORE WE TRY TO MAKE OUR LIFE SECURE IN COUNTRIES, MONEY,ETC.ETC,
HE CAUSES DISASTERS IN THE WORLD,EARTH QUAKES AND TSUNAMIS THE MONEY MARKET COLLAPSING.
COMPANIES GO BUST AND OUR SECURITY. OF EMPLOYMENT GOES DOWN THE DRAIN.

WE HAVE TO RETURN TO BELIEVING IN G=D AND SAYING A LITTLE PRAYER AND THANKING HIM EVERY DAY.
THAT'S WHAT JEWISH LIFE AND NON JEWISH LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.
BY HOOK OR BY CROOK G=D WILL MAKE US SEE IN THE END THAT THERE IS NO RELIABILITY ONLY TO BELIEVE.
THAT'S THE TEST OF LIFE FOR EVERYONE.

Thursday 28 July 2011

THE JEWISH CHRONICLE

IF I CAN READ THE J.C. ONLINE FOR NOTHING,
WHY SHOULD I PAY FOR A SUBSCRIPTION ?

I THINK THAT THE FUTURE OF NEWSPAPERS ARE OUT. YOU SHOULD DO AS THE L.J.N. HAS DONE AND CONCENTRATE ON ADVERTS AND BE A FREE NEWSPAPER ( I HAVE GIVEN THIS ADVICE TO THE JEWISH TRIBUNE AS WELL ) .

IN YOUR SUBSCRIPTION LETTER TO ME YOU WRITE " KEEPING YOU INFORMED OF EVERYTHING WHICH IS OF INTEREST TO YOU AS A JEW".
BUT FROM YOUR PAPER A PERSON CAN GET THE IMPRESSION THAT BEING A JEW IS FASHION, TRAVEL,BUSINESS,SPORT,ARTS COVERAGE, ETC ,ETC,
NOT A WORD TO YOUR GENERAL JEWISH PUBLIC,THAT WE BECAME JEWISH ON MOUNT SINAI  BY EXCEPTING THE TORAH AND KEEPING THE  613 MITZVOTH FROM G-D.

THAT WE ARE A RELIGION AND NOT A RACE.
ANYONE EVEN TO- DAY WHO EXCEPTS AND KEEPS THE TORAH THE 613 MITZVOTH IS A JEW LIKE YOU OR ME.
EVEN A  BORN JEWISH PERSON WHO DOES NOT KEEP THE MITVOTH AND SPECIALLY NOT THE SHABOS HAS A DIN OF A GOY  ( A NON JEW ).
AN EXAMPLE IS IF HE TOUCHES WINE  I CAN NOT DRINK IT.

THERE ARE MANY MORE EXAMPLES. ASK THE CHIEF RABBI IF I AM NOT RIGHT.
A JEW IS NOT A PERSON WHO BELONGS TO A CERTAIN SECT, EVEN IF THEY GO WITH STREIMELS TO THE SKY AND LONG COATS TO THE FLOOR.
A JEWISH WOMAN IS NOT A LADY WHO COVERS HERSELF THAT ONLY ONE EYE IS SHOWING.

I AM VERY SORRY THAT THE IGNORANCE IN STAMFORD HILL AND IN YOUR NON RELIGIOUS WORLD,
WHO AND WHAT IS A JEW IS SO GREAT.

YOU CAN PUT THIS LETTER IN YOUR PAPER.

Wednesday 27 July 2011

MEMBERSHIP OF A SYNAGOGUE

BEING A JEW ,SPECIALLY AN ORTHODOX ,AND CHASDIC JEW ,HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING ACCEPTED BY A  SYNAGOGUE OR CHASIDIC STIEBLE OR SECT.
THIS IS WHERE THE BLACK MAIL OF THE JEWISH COMMUNITY COMES IN. SPECIALLY IN ENGLAND .


THE UNITED SYNAGOGUE, FEDERATION ,.GOLDERS GREEN, OR STAMFORD HILL,
A JEW IS A RELIGION NOT A RACE .
EVERYBODY WHO ACCEPTS THE TORAH AND THE 613 MITZVOTH IS A FULLY  FLEDGE JEW .
IF YOU DO NOT AGREE TO THE 613 MITZVOTH THEN YOU ARE LACKING IN BEING A JEW.

WE BECAME JEWISH ON MOUNT SINAI BY ACCEPTING  THE FULL TORAH
IF YOU DO NOT ACCEPT  THE FULL TORAH THEN YOU ARE NOT A FULL JEW,
EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY BE BORN A JEW.

WE CANT DIVERSE FROM THE TORAH THAT MADE US JEWISH ON MOUNT SINAI.
THEN WE ARE LIKE THE CHRISTIANS  OR REFORM ,CONSERVATIVE, OR LIBERALS ,WHO WANT TO CHANGE THE GROUND RULES OF THE HOLY TORAH.
TO END WE HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT SATMAR ,BELZ OR ANY CHASSIDUS OR ORGANISATION  DOES NOT MAKE ME A JEW.