I WAS READING IN LAST WEEKS KOL MEVASER 21/2/2014.
THAT 11 YEARS HAVE PASSED SINCE THE PASSING OF MEIR HOCHHAUSER Z"L.
I LIVED FOR OVER 3 YEARS WITH MY DEAR WIFE AT THE HOCHHAUSER'S HOUSE
61 LORDSHIP PARK.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS THE FIRST YEAR WITH HIS DEAR PARENTS AND THEN HIS FATHER PASSED AWAY.
HIS MOTHER WAS ONLY THERE DURING THE WEEK SHABOS AND YOM TOV SHE WAS ALWAYS AWAY BY ONE OF THE CHILDREN.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS EATING ALONE.
WE TRIED TO INVITE HIM BUT HE NEVER WANTED TO COME.
HE USED TO EAT DOWNSTAIRS ALONE, HE ALSO SANG BEAUTIFUL ZEMIROS ALONE.
MY WIFE AND I USED TO SIT ON THE STAIRS LISTENING TO HIM.
EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT SHE USED TO SAY TO ME: " DO NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE, YOU ARE A GOOD TALKER GO DOWNSTAIRS AND TALK TO HIM". WE GOT VERY FRIENDLY AND THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO PUT THE RECORD STRAIGHT.
AS HE WAS TWICE DIVORCED MANY PEOPLE SHUNNED HIM IN THE BEIS HAMEDRASH BELZ 99 BETHUNE ROAD.
HE TOLD ME THAT THERE WERE PEOPLE WHO NEVER TALKED FROM YEAR TO YEAR ONLY ON RHOSH HASHONO, ONCE A YEAR DID THEY WISH HIM THE TRADITIONAL A GOOD YEAR.
DURING THE YEAR THEY NEVER EVEN SAID GOOD SHABBOS TO HIM AS HE WAS A FAILURE IN LIFE BEING DIVORCED TWICE.
EVEN THOUGH HE WAS A BIG TALMUD CHOCHOM AND HAD A BEAUTIFUL VOICE.
( THIS IS A FAILURE OF THE PARENTS WHO NEVER EDUCATED HIM HOW TO GET ALONG WITH A WIFE AND IT IS STILL WITH US TO-DAY HAVING CHILDREN IS B"H EASY BUT TEACHING THEM HOW TO GET ALONG IN LIFE THAT IS WHAT G=D WANTS) .
HIS LIFE WAS VERY SAD AND LONELY EVEN FROM HIS OWN FAMILY.
THE MAN WAS MISERABLE HAD NO RECOGNITION. BUT THE MAN ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE AND HE WAS PLEASED WHEN I USED TO COME DOWN AND TALK TO HIM.
ONLY WHEN HE WAS NEAR TO DEATH DID PEOPLE GIVE HIM A BIT OF RECOGNITION, AND AS WE CAN SEE TO-DAY FROM THE KOL MEVASER HE IS GETTING RECOGNITION AFTER PASSING ON.
WE SHOULD NOT GLORIFY HIS LIFE, IT WAS LONELY AND MISERABLE NEARLY TO HIS DYING DAY.
THAT 11 YEARS HAVE PASSED SINCE THE PASSING OF MEIR HOCHHAUSER Z"L.
I LIVED FOR OVER 3 YEARS WITH MY DEAR WIFE AT THE HOCHHAUSER'S HOUSE
61 LORDSHIP PARK.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS THE FIRST YEAR WITH HIS DEAR PARENTS AND THEN HIS FATHER PASSED AWAY.
HIS MOTHER WAS ONLY THERE DURING THE WEEK SHABOS AND YOM TOV SHE WAS ALWAYS AWAY BY ONE OF THE CHILDREN.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS EATING ALONE.
WE TRIED TO INVITE HIM BUT HE NEVER WANTED TO COME.
HE USED TO EAT DOWNSTAIRS ALONE, HE ALSO SANG BEAUTIFUL ZEMIROS ALONE.
MY WIFE AND I USED TO SIT ON THE STAIRS LISTENING TO HIM.
EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT SHE USED TO SAY TO ME: " DO NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE, YOU ARE A GOOD TALKER GO DOWNSTAIRS AND TALK TO HIM". WE GOT VERY FRIENDLY AND THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO PUT THE RECORD STRAIGHT.
AS HE WAS TWICE DIVORCED MANY PEOPLE SHUNNED HIM IN THE BEIS HAMEDRASH BELZ 99 BETHUNE ROAD.
HE TOLD ME THAT THERE WERE PEOPLE WHO NEVER TALKED FROM YEAR TO YEAR ONLY ON RHOSH HASHONO, ONCE A YEAR DID THEY WISH HIM THE TRADITIONAL A GOOD YEAR.
DURING THE YEAR THEY NEVER EVEN SAID GOOD SHABBOS TO HIM AS HE WAS A FAILURE IN LIFE BEING DIVORCED TWICE.
EVEN THOUGH HE WAS A BIG TALMUD CHOCHOM AND HAD A BEAUTIFUL VOICE.
( THIS IS A FAILURE OF THE PARENTS WHO NEVER EDUCATED HIM HOW TO GET ALONG WITH A WIFE AND IT IS STILL WITH US TO-DAY HAVING CHILDREN IS B"H EASY BUT TEACHING THEM HOW TO GET ALONG IN LIFE THAT IS WHAT G=D WANTS) .
HIS LIFE WAS VERY SAD AND LONELY EVEN FROM HIS OWN FAMILY.
THE MAN WAS MISERABLE HAD NO RECOGNITION. BUT THE MAN ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE AND HE WAS PLEASED WHEN I USED TO COME DOWN AND TALK TO HIM.
ONLY WHEN HE WAS NEAR TO DEATH DID PEOPLE GIVE HIM A BIT OF RECOGNITION, AND AS WE CAN SEE TO-DAY FROM THE KOL MEVASER HE IS GETTING RECOGNITION AFTER PASSING ON.
WE SHOULD NOT GLORIFY HIS LIFE, IT WAS LONELY AND MISERABLE NEARLY TO HIS DYING DAY.
