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Sunday 23 February 2014

MEIR HOCHHAUSER Z" L

I WAS  READING IN LAST WEEKS KOL MEVASER 21/2/2014. 
 THAT 11 YEARS HAVE PASSED SINCE THE PASSING OF MEIR HOCHHAUSER Z"L.
I LIVED FOR OVER 3 YEARS WITH MY DEAR WIFE AT THE HOCHHAUSER'S HOUSE
61 LORDSHIP PARK.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS THE FIRST YEAR WITH HIS DEAR PARENTS AND THEN HIS FATHER PASSED AWAY.
HIS MOTHER WAS ONLY THERE DURING THE WEEK SHABOS AND YOM TOV SHE WAS ALWAYS AWAY BY ONE OF THE CHILDREN.
MEIR WAS DOWNSTAIRS EATING ALONE.
 WE TRIED TO INVITE HIM  BUT HE NEVER WANTED TO COME.
HE USED TO EAT DOWNSTAIRS ALONE, HE ALSO SANG BEAUTIFUL ZEMIROS ALONE. 
MY WIFE AND I USED TO SIT ON THE STAIRS LISTENING TO HIM.
EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT SHE USED TO SAY TO ME: " DO NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE, YOU ARE A GOOD TALKER GO DOWNSTAIRS AND TALK TO HIM".                                                                     WE GOT VERY FRIENDLY AND THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO PUT THE RECORD STRAIGHT.
AS HE WAS TWICE DIVORCED MANY PEOPLE SHUNNED HIM IN THE BEIS HAMEDRASH BELZ 99 BETHUNE ROAD.
HE TOLD ME THAT THERE WERE PEOPLE WHO NEVER TALKED FROM YEAR TO YEAR ONLY ON  RHOSH HASHONO, ONCE A YEAR DID THEY WISH HIM THE TRADITIONAL A GOOD YEAR.
DURING THE YEAR THEY NEVER EVEN SAID GOOD SHABBOS TO HIM AS HE WAS A FAILURE IN LIFE BEING DIVORCED TWICE.
EVEN THOUGH HE WAS A BIG TALMUD CHOCHOM AND HAD  A BEAUTIFUL VOICE.
( THIS IS A FAILURE OF THE PARENTS WHO NEVER EDUCATED HIM HOW TO GET ALONG WITH A WIFE AND IT IS STILL WITH US TO-DAY  HAVING CHILDREN IS  B"H EASY  BUT TEACHING THEM HOW TO GET ALONG IN LIFE THAT IS WHAT G=D WANTS) .
HIS LIFE WAS VERY SAD AND LONELY EVEN FROM HIS OWN FAMILY.
THE MAN WAS MISERABLE HAD NO RECOGNITION. BUT THE MAN ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE AND HE WAS PLEASED WHEN I USED TO COME DOWN AND TALK TO HIM.
ONLY WHEN HE WAS NEAR TO DEATH DID PEOPLE GIVE HIM A BIT OF RECOGNITION, AND AS WE CAN SEE TO-DAY FROM THE KOL MEVASER HE IS GETTING RECOGNITION AFTER PASSING  ON.
WE SHOULD NOT GLORIFY HIS LIFE, IT WAS LONELY AND MISERABLE NEARLY  TO HIS DYING DAY. 

   
   

      

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Are "YOU" crazy or mental?
1)put down the whole belz beis midrash for not talking to him(ICH MEIN AS DI BIST TOIT MESHUGE)
2)put down his parents for not educated him,and therefore he got divorced twice.(ich halt as di host nisht kein hartz,afilou nisht a trop.)
3)put down is familly for not looking after him(look gaby,i dont know you and i didnt know meir hochauser,but one thing i do know that this article of yours is SICKENING.)
4)The "only"person you put up in you article is*yourself*(you are a good talker,you went down to speak to him)
5)you allways putdown all the people who get divorced,(put down them their parents etc..)i thought..how come you still live with you wife???it maybe a)she dosent know who you are.b)you told her that if she speaks about divorce ,you will kill her(and for whatever reason she really believes you).c)you cant afford it.
The maskono:halt dain shmutzige hashgofois for you and you wife,only write if it is nice(but it seems that you cant do that,so please please KEEP QUIET.
P.s.sorry for writing so sharp,its just my heart breaks for all the inocent peoples you kill with your articles.
P.s.please anyone out there who thinks like me,dont be afraid and write openly what you think.

Anonymous said...

To anonymous:thank you .you are doing our shelihus.kol hakavod.

Anonymous said...

R MEIR HOCHUASER WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON HE UNDERSTOOD WHAT MEANS SHABBOS AND HE UNDERSTOOD THE PURPOSE OF LIFE HE KNEW EIN ODOM SHIR ELO MITOICH SIMCHA

HE KNEW THAT THOSANDS OF MALOCHIM ALL SAT DOWN ON THE STAIRCASE LISTENING TO HIM THAT HEILIGE NSHMO KNEW THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH MAY HE BE A MELITZ YOISHER FOR ALL OF US MAY HE DAVEN BY THE KISEI HAKOVOD FOR ALL THE CHOLIM IN KLAL YISROEL OMEN

Anonymous said...

Dear Rabbi Lock. I love you. X