SIMCHAS HACHAYIM

LAST WEEKEND A GATHERING TOOK PLACE IN BOURNEMOUTH.
IT WAS FOR COUPLES TO FIND SIMCHAS HACHAYIM.
TRANSLATED, HAPPINESS IN LIFE.
THERE IS HAPPINESS IN LIFE WHEN YOU FIND THE PURPOSE OF LIFE
AND MARRIAGE.
WE WAITED AND MY WIFE WENT THROUGH A LOT OF DANGER IN HAVING MY CHILDREN,
I DID NOT OVER LOVE AND SPOIL THEM,
BUT I THANKED G=D EVERY MINUTE THAT HE GAVE ME AND MY WIFE THE OPPORTUNITY
TO BRING UP MY CHILDREN IN EDUCATION AND BEHAVIOUR.

I DID NOT FIND MY CHILDREN AN BURDEN THAT DISTURBED ME OR MY DEAR WIFE'S LIFE
AND MY CHILDREN FELT AND KNEW IT.
I SEE THIS IN THE WAY MY CHILDREN BRING UP THEIR CHILDREN.
WHEN WATCHING YOUNG COUPLES TO-DAY,
WHO CANT WAIT TO GET RID OF THEIR CHILDREN AND SEND THEM TO SCHOOL
AND EVEN AT A YOUNGER AGE TO PLAY-GROUPS.
I WONDER WHY THEY HAD THE CHILDREN AS THEY ARE JUST BRINGING UP PROBLEMS
IN OUR COMMUNITY,
AS THE CHILDREN FEEL REJECTED.

TRUE LOVE IN PARTNERS IS CARING FOR EACH OTHER,
NOT JUST YOUR OWN SATISFACTION.
FINDING YOUR CHILD A BURDEN AND NEEDING TO HAVE A BREAK
FROM YOUR FAMILY AND HUSBAND IS VERY SAD.
IS THE REASON YOU HAVE NO SHIMCHAS HACIYIM