Marriage and Love

Golders Green Rabbis

WHAT IS LOVE

I MADE A PROGRAM FOR THE BBC WITH MY WIFE
EXPLAINING WHAT IS LOVE.
WE HAVE A BAD UNDERSTANDING OF LOVE IN THE FRUM WORLD
AND OF COURSE IN THE NON-FRUM AND GOYISHE WORLD.

LOVE IS WHEN TWO PEOPLE FEEL CONNECTED WITH ONE ANOTHER.
THIS IS A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION WHICH G=D PUTS INTO A PERSON.
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION,
WHICH WE CALL LOVE.
THE SPIRITUAL CONNECTION STAYS EVEN  AFTER
THE PHYSICAL CONNECTION  HAS PASSED.

THIS JOB OF EXPLAINING REAL MARRIAGE BELONGS TO
THE RABBONIM.
BUT MOST OF THEM DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS
AS THEY DO NOT KNOW THAT THE LOVE OF A PARTNER
IS THERE TO TEACH YOU TO LOVE G=D.

MY VALUE

LAST WEEK SHABBOS I MET A MAN IN THE STREET, HE SAID TO ME WHO ARE YOU TO BE  OUR SPOKESMAN ,
THIS WAS ABOUT THE TELEVISION PROGRAM.
I ANSWERED HIM I DO NOT HAVE TO BE VALUED ,BY YOU OR ANYONE ELSE, TO GIVE MY OPINION ON LIFE IN STAMFORD HILL.

AND THAT'S EXQUISITELY WHAT MY WIFE EXPLAINED IN THE PROGRAM.
WE ARE AT A STAGE IN LIFE ( THANK G-D ) WERE WE CANT BE BLACK MAILED ANYMORE.
WE BLACK MAIL THE PARENTS WHEN THEY HAVE TO SEND CHILDREN TO SCHOOL.
THEN WE WOUNDER WHY OSHER SHAPIRO HAS SO MANY DROPOUTS IN HIS ORGANISATION .

DO YOU THINK THAT THESE CHILDREN DO NOT KNOW WHAT A JOB IT IS TO GET THEM INTO SCHOOLS ,
AND THAT THEY ARE NOT VALUED, EVEN BY THE PARENTS THEY NEVER HUG OR KISS THEIR CHILDREN,
CHASIDUS AND LITVSHER ORGANISATIONS DO THE SAME,
AVI BRESSLER WAS NEVER VALUED AND THAT'S WHAT HE SHOWED IN HIS PART OF THE THE FILM.

THE FILM REFLECTED THE TRUE LIFE OF THESE PEOPLE,
AND IF YOU THINK IT DOES NOT REFLECT ON THE REST OF THE COMMUNITY ,ASK OSHER SHAPIRO.
EVERY DROPOUT WHO I TALKED TO HAD A STORY TO TELL ABOUT THE LACK OF LOVE, IN HIS YOUTH ,FROM THE SCHOOLS ,AND PARENTS.
I WISH AVI BRESSLER MAZEL TOV ON HIS FIRST GRANDCHILD ,BUT AT THE SAME TIME FEEL SORRY, FOR THE CHILD IN WHAT A SNOBS SOCIETY IT HAS TO GROW UP IN.

ALL  I CAN SAY TO AVI SON AND DAUGHTER IN LAW ,GIVE THE CHILD PLENTY OF LOVE, AND KISSES, AS IT WILL NEED THIS WHEN IT COMES TO OUR TERRIBLE SCHOOL SELECTORS.

MARRIED LIFE AND COUNSELING

MARRIAGE AND SPECIALLY THE DAY OF THE WEDDING ARE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT DEEDS IN THE JEWISH WORLD ..
IT IS A PITY IT IS GIVEN TO YOUNGSTERS WHO DO NOT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE IT .
THE OLDER GENERATION DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW TO GIVE OVER THIS IMPORTANT MESSAGE  TO THE YOUNGSTERS AS SOME OF THEM DO NOT KNOW IT THEMSELVES.

PARENTS OF TO-DAY TALK OPEN WHEN THEY USE BAD LANGUAGE OR WHEN THEY ARE BETWEEN GOYIUM BUT TO THEIR CHILDREN THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO TALK OPENLY
AND EXPLAIN THE DUTY OF A YID IN MARRIED LIFE .
THAT THROUGH LOVING YOUR WIFE DEARLY FIRST THROUGH DESIRE AND THEN HOPEFULLY SPIRITUALLY.

YOU LEARN BAZRUS HASEAM  TO LOVE G-D WITH ALL YOUR HEART.
THE LOVE AND RESPECT OF TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE LIVING TOGETHER WILL TEACH YOU TO LOVE
BUT THAT IS A LESSON WHICH CHANGES AS LIFE GOES ON .

THIS GIVES YOU CHILDREN WHO ARE PRODUCED FROM A HIGHER LEVEL OF LIFE AND A GOY AND MOST YIDEN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THAT
MARRIAGE COUNSELLING NEEDS TO BE GIVEN BY RABONIM WHEN THEY ARE CHOSEN AND KALLE AS MANY HAVE NOT SEEN THIS HIGHER LEVEL OF LIFE FROM THEIR PARENTS.