ON THE 9 JANUARY 1996 MY OLDEST SON GOT MARRIED.
MY WIFE WHO WENT THROUGH A VERY HARD TIME IN HAVING HIM AND COULD NOT PART WITH HIM AND IT WAS DISTURBING OUR MARRIAGE.
I HEARD OF THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL IN HENDON AND THEY AGREED WE COULD SEE A LADY WHO CAME ONCE A WEEK TO STAMFORD HILL.
HER NAME IS MRS JANE DONY OF 24 CLAREMONT PARK FINCHLEY LONDON N3
( her husband is high up in the federation of synagogues ).
WE DID NOT ALWAYS SEE HER TOGETHER.
ONCE SHE ASKED MY WIFE WHY SHE DID NOT DIVORCE ME.
MY WIFE ANSWERED HER SHE DID NOT COME TO THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL TO GET DIVORCED.
SHE CAME FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO LEARN TO LIVE TOGETHER.
I PHONED THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THIS.
THEY DID NOT USE NICE LANGUAGE AND I GAVE THEM A MOUTHFUL BACK.
I DO NOT KNOW IF IT WAS MRS JANE DONY OR THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL WHO PHONED UP RABBI DOVID GRYNHAUS(who's father was a federation synagogue man)
AND PLAYED HIM A RECORDING ( which is not legal or moral to do ) OF MY PHONE CALL
TO THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL.
I HAD BEEN LEARNING QUIET A FEW YEARS BCHAVRUSA WITH HIM AND ALSO WENT TO HIS SHIUR.
HE BROKE OFF THE CHAVRUSA (I told him they only played you half the conversation you did not hear in what a degrading way they talked to me).
I NEVER KNEW HIM AS SUCH A SNOB ( all he cared about was his position in life and promotions).
HE DID NOT WANT TO HEAR MY SIDE AT ALL. I WAS HURT, I DID NOT SAY A WORD.
AGAIN I SAY I RESPECT THE RABBONIM BUT THEY ARE NOT G=D GIFT TO MAN KIND ESPECIALLY IN BEHAVIOUR.
GABY LOCK NEVER FORGETS ! !
MY WIFE WHO WENT THROUGH A VERY HARD TIME IN HAVING HIM AND COULD NOT PART WITH HIM AND IT WAS DISTURBING OUR MARRIAGE.
I HEARD OF THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL IN HENDON AND THEY AGREED WE COULD SEE A LADY WHO CAME ONCE A WEEK TO STAMFORD HILL.
HER NAME IS MRS JANE DONY OF 24 CLAREMONT PARK FINCHLEY LONDON N3
( her husband is high up in the federation of synagogues ).
WE DID NOT ALWAYS SEE HER TOGETHER.
ONCE SHE ASKED MY WIFE WHY SHE DID NOT DIVORCE ME.
MY WIFE ANSWERED HER SHE DID NOT COME TO THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL TO GET DIVORCED.
SHE CAME FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO LEARN TO LIVE TOGETHER.
I PHONED THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THIS.
THEY DID NOT USE NICE LANGUAGE AND I GAVE THEM A MOUTHFUL BACK.
I DO NOT KNOW IF IT WAS MRS JANE DONY OR THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL WHO PHONED UP RABBI DOVID GRYNHAUS(who's father was a federation synagogue man)
AND PLAYED HIM A RECORDING ( which is not legal or moral to do ) OF MY PHONE CALL
TO THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL.
I HAD BEEN LEARNING QUIET A FEW YEARS BCHAVRUSA WITH HIM AND ALSO WENT TO HIS SHIUR.
HE BROKE OFF THE CHAVRUSA (I told him they only played you half the conversation you did not hear in what a degrading way they talked to me).
I NEVER KNEW HIM AS SUCH A SNOB ( all he cared about was his position in life and promotions).
HE DID NOT WANT TO HEAR MY SIDE AT ALL. I WAS HURT, I DID NOT SAY A WORD.
AGAIN I SAY I RESPECT THE RABBONIM BUT THEY ARE NOT G=D GIFT TO MAN KIND ESPECIALLY IN BEHAVIOUR.
I DO NOT CURSE BUT I HAVE BEEN HURT A LOT OF TIMES BY LAY LEADERS AND RABBONIM IN THEIR UNFAIR TREATMENT OF ME.
I HAVE A FANTASTIC MEMORY, I EVEN REMEMBER HOW I WAS TREATED IN GATESHEAD JEWISH BOARDING SCHOOL.
I STILL REMEMBER HOW ABA SPIELMAN WAS TREATED THERE, AND I WAS ONLY TEN BY THE EDUCATORS AND PUPILS ( how should they give him respect if the educators did not ) LOOK AT THE WAY HE TURNED OUT.
A FEW YEARS AGO I DECIDED THAT I AM COMING OUT WITH THE TRUTH IT NEEDS TO BE TOLD.
BUT I WISH EVERY JEW LOVED EVERY JEW THE WAY I DO.
GABY LOCK NEVER FORGETS ! !