AGE CONCERN

New Takanah in Toldos Aaron
(Thursday, June 7th, 2012)
The Toldos Aaron Rebbe Shlita has implemented a new takanah pertaining to shidduchim, putting an end to shidduchim involving young couples. According a BaKehilla report the rebbe has become aware that over recent years younger couple that got married would hide the fact, sometimes for a number of years. He wishes to put and end to this trend, not permitting shidduchim for chassidim under 18.

WHEN I WROTE ABOUT THIS ON MY BLOG YEARS AGO,
THEY SAID I WAS A SHYGETZ  ( A NOT JEWISH ATTITUDE TO LIFE ).
I WROTE: " DO NOT MARRY  BOYS TILL TWENTY-ONE AND GIRLS TILL TWENTY.
BUT GIVE IT A FEW MORE YEARS.
THE REBBE IS RIGHT. THESE YOUNG CHILDREN'S BODIES  ARE READY
TO HAVE CHILDREN BUT NOT READY IN MIND.

TO GIVE UP THEIR  YOUNG LIVES TO BRING THE CHILDREN UP PROPERLY.
THEY GET MARRIED TO GET OUT OF THE CLUTCHES OF THEIR PARENTS.
 THEY HAVE CHILDREN THAT ARE NOT WANTED AT THIS AGE.
THEY STILL WANT TO GET OUT AND ENJOY THEMSELVES.
IT IS ALRIGHT FOR THE RICH WHO CAN  AFFORD  BABY-SITTERS AND PLAY GROUPS.
 THE POOR BECOME TEACHERS , WHERE THEY CAN DUMP THEIR CHILDREN FOR A FEW HOURS
IN A FREE CRECHE WHICH  IS SUPPLIED BY THE SCHOOL.
THE HUSBANDS STILL WANT TO BE A BOCHER
AND IS TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF BEING A PARENT.
THEY DO NOT SHARE THEIR LIVES ONLY IN BED.
THE PROBLEMS END BY THE REBBES AND THE DINEI TORAH.