MARRIAGE

MY DEAR WIFE A.H.
WENT TO TAKE ADVICE FROM HER RABBI,
RABBI JOSEPH ZVI DUNNER THE FATHER OF DAYAN AHRON DOVID DUNNER.
IF TO AGREE TO MARRY OR NOT,
HE ANSWERED HER,
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE HIM DO NOT MARRY HIM, BUT IF YOU CAN LEARN TO LIVE TOGETHER YOU CAN MARRY HIM.
THIS  EXPLAINED MEANS SOMETHING PEOPLE TO DAY DO NOT UNDERSTAND, BEFORE YOU ARE MARRIED YOU ARE EACH AN INDIVIDUAL.
YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT, GO WERE YOU WANT YOU CAN BEND TO YOUR PARENTS OR MENTORS WILL.  
WHEN YOU MARRY A NEW THING HAS BEEN SET UP YOU ARE TOGETHER AND HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE AND FIND A WAY HOW TO TOLERATED EACH OTHERS WAYS, IT IS COMPLETELY A NEW LIFE FROM BEFORE YOU WERE MARRIED.
HOW YOU CAME TOGETHER AND MET IS NOT IMPORTANT SHIDUCH OR NOT G-D PUT YOU TOGETHER.
HOW OR TO WHAT YOUR PARENTS BELONG TO IS NOT IMPORTANT.
YOU ARE A NEW UNIT AND HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE TOGETHER AND TOLERATED EACH OTHERS PECULIARITIES.