CHALLENGES OF THE COMMUNITY

THE WORLD HAS CHANGED AND COMFORT AND PLEASURE ARE THE GOALS, INSTEAD, OF PERSONAL FULFILMENT'S.
YEARS AGO IT WAS NOT POSSIBLE FOR A FRUM PERSON TO LIVE A PLEASURE-BASED LIFE
IT WAS A STRUGGLE TO REMAIN A YID AND EVEN STAY ALIVE, WHEN MANY YOUNG PEOPLE DIED OF TUBERCULOSIS OR PNEUMONIA
TO DAY LIFE IS FOCUSED ON ATTAINING AS MUCH PLEASURE AS POSSIBLE.
IF THEY THINK THEY ARE NOT GETTING THE PLEASURES DUE TO THEM SOMETHING IS TERRIBLY WRONG AND THIS WREAKS HAVOC ON OUR LIVES AND MARRIAGES
THIS IS THE REASON OF COUNTLESS COUPLES WHO ARE NOT HAPPILY MARRIED
THEY LACK DIRECTION IN TRUE GOALS OF LIFE
ALSO COUPLES MAY BRING UP TRIVIAL ARGUMENTS SUCH AS WHICH PARENTS
THEY WILL TRAVEL TO FOR YOM TOV.
WHEN THE TRUE ISSUE IS WHO HAS CONTROL.
THE CHOFETZ CHAIM SAID ABOUT  SHALOM BAYIS THAT THE FOUNDATION OF ALL MACHLOKES IS TAAVAS NITZACHON ( THE DESIRE TO WIN ) 
YOU MAY WIN THE BATTLE BUT YOU ARE NOT ANY  HAPPIER