Don't worry about trying to replicate the same type of love, as this may not be even possible. What you had with your wife was built upon over many years. But it might do you good to start fresh with a new wife where you can both provide company for each other.
I wish you and the mishpocheh long life and only simcha. I didn't know your wife, I only knew her from YouTube, but she seemed such a lovely lady. I hope you can find a shidduch. It is not good for a man to be alone. Zei gezint.
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So sorry for your loss and I'm glad you can find comfort in your children. Have you ever thought about remarrying?
YES
YOU ARE THE FIRST ONE WHO CARES AND GIVES A COMMENT
I pray that you will find some comfort and ease with a new wife and that you will also give her comfort and ease.
I WAS MARRIED TO MY DEAR WIFE A.H.
FOR 45 YEARS AND BY HE FUNERAL I SAID WE NEVER TOLD A LIE TO EACH OTHER
PEOPLE TOLD ME THAT SUCH LOVES DOES NOT COME BACK
IF YOU EVER HAVE THE CHANCE TO MEET MY CHILDREN
YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THIS.
Don't worry about trying to replicate the same type of love, as this may not be even possible. What you had with your wife was built upon over many years. But it might do you good to start fresh with a new wife where you can both provide company for each other.
THAT IS VERY HARD TO FIND
I CAN NOT EVEN FIND A LADY FRIEND TO GO OUT AND CHAT WITH
THERE LIFE IS FULL OF WHAT WILL THE OTHER PERSON SAY
IF THEY FIND OUT
WE MAKE LIFE VERY LONELY FOR PEOPLE WHO LOSE THEIR PARTNERS
WHEN I TELL THIS TO OTHER FRUMERS
THEY SAY WE HAVE THE PERFECT LIFE.
I thought marriage in your community was easy? Surely there are lady widows who also need companionship? Loneliness is a killer :-(
I THINK THAT MOST OF OUR MARRIED PEOPLE
DO NOT HAVE ANY TRUE LOVE
AND WHEN THE PARTNER DIES THEY ARE JUST PLEASED TO BE ALONE
WHAT BEING MARRIED IS ALL ABOUT HAS NOT BEEN EXPLAINED TO OUR YOUNGSTERS.
What is marriage all about
IN THE TORAH YOU ARE BORN TWO
DIFFRENT PEOPLE AND YOU WILL STAY DIFFRENT
A MAN IS A MAN A WOMEN IS A WOMEN
BUT TOGETHER YOU A ONE, AND THATS WHAT YOU HAVE TO TEACH THE CHILDREN
THE MAIN AIM OF MARRIAGE IS TO LIVE TOGTHER AS ONE,
I wish you and the mishpocheh long life and only simcha. I didn't know your wife, I only knew her from YouTube, but she seemed such a lovely lady. I hope you can find a shidduch. It is not good for a man to be alone. Zei gezint.
YOU HAVE ANY TOUCHED A VERY SORE POINT IN LIFE
LONELINESS BUT VERY FEW JEWISH PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THIS AND CARE
THERE WHOLE LIFE IS AROUND THEMSELVES THIS IS VERY SAD.
I HAVE FOUND THROUGH MY DOCTOR AN ORGANISATION YHAT HELPS PEOPLE
WITH LONLINES BUT I AM FROWNED UPON AS THEY NOT JEWISH
I TELL THEM VERY VERY JEWS CARE ABOUT LONLENESS.
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