MY QUESTION ?

I  HAVE A MAJOR QUESTION ABOUT LIFE ?

CAN THE DEAD, THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE PASSES ON FEEL THE PROBLEMS AND PAIN OF THE PROBLEMS OF THEIR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN THAT ARE STILL ALIVE AND ON THIS WORLD.

G-D DOES NOT DO BAD TO A PERSON ONLY GOOD THE DEAD SEE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO A PERSON AS GOOD THEY ARE NEAR TO G-D AND SEE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO A PERSON AS GOOD

WE ON THIS WORLD CAN NOT SEE THINGS THE SAME AS THE DEAD, THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE PASSED ON SEE EVERYTHING AS GOOD

WHEN I PRAY TO HASHEM

I PRAY THAT I SHOULD SEE THE GOOD G-D IS DOING FOR ME

AS RABBI ELIMELECH BIDERMAN SAYS 

" THE ONE WHO PRAYED A TEFILAH SHLEIMAH " 

A WHOLESOME PRAYER, WAS ANSWERED.

THE ONE WHO DID NOT PRAY A " TEFILAH SHLEIMAH "

WAS NOT ANSWERED.

WHEN SOMEONE COMES COLLECTING TO MARRY HIS CHILD RABBI BIDERMAN SAYS THAT IS NOT A 

TEFILAH SHLEIMAH AS YOU HAVE PROMISED AN AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR THE SHIDACH, NOW YOU ARE PRAYING TO G-D THAT YOU SHOULD  COLLECT THAT AMOUNT OF MONEY, YOU HAVE GIVEN G-D THE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM.

A TEFILAH SHLEIMAH  IS WERE YOU ASK G-D'S HELP AND YOU DO NOT GIVE HIM A SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM.

THE SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM HASHEM WILL FIND .