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Thursday 17 March 2016

THIS WEEKS UPDATE

IN WRITE YOUR LINES I AM AMAZED.
A PARENT AND A FORMER TEACHER WRITE THAT THEY HAVE PROBLEMS. 
THE TEACHER HAS A PROBLEM WITH THE STRESS AND PRESSURE OF MISHLOACH MONOS ON PURIM.

I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH MISHLOACH MONOS
I DO NOT DRIVE AROUND,  I GIVE MISHLOACH MONOS TO MY NEAR NEIGHBOURS, AND DO THE MITZVH.
AS YOU SAY PURIM IS NOT THE TIME OF HAKORAS HATOV AND TO SHOW FRIENDSHIP TO FRIENDS.

WHAT YOUR CHILDREN SHOULD THINK OF PURIM IS UP TO YOU.
AS PARENT LET THE CHILDREN ENJOY THEM SELVES ON THE DAY AND DO NOT PUT PRESSURE ON THEM.
THE SAME APPLIES TO  THE LETTER BEFORE THIS ONE.

IT IS WRONG FOR PARENTS TO BE PROUD OF A CHILD  IF IT IS TALENTED AND IS CHOSEN TO DANCE ON THE STAGE
A PARENT HAS TO KNOW THAT A CHILD IS FROM HASHEM, AND HAS TO BE VALUED WHAT EVER HE OR SHE IS.
IF THE WRITER ( THE MOTHER ) HAD THIS PAIN OF NOT BEING CHOSEN TO PERFORM IT WAS A MISTAKE OF YOUR PARENTS NOT TO POINT OUT THIS POWERFUL LESSON IN CHINUCH.

THE LIFE LESSON YOU SHOULD HAVE IS THAT YOU AND YOUR CHILD HAVE VALUE EVEN IF YOU HAVE NEVER PERFORMED BEFORE AN AUDIENCE .

LOW SELF-ESTEEM IS BECAUSE YOU AND YOUR CHILD HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT EMUNAH IN HASHEM AND THAT EVERY  PERSON HAS A VALUE BY G-D. 

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