SHEVA BRACHOS

IN ONE OF THE BLESSINGS OF THE SHEVA BRACHOS,  WE MAKE REFERENCE TO THE NEWLYWED COUPLE AS BEING " RE'YIM AHUVIM " ( LOVING FRIENDS )

THERE IS A MESSAGE BEHIND THIS EXPRESSION.

IN ORDER FOR A CHOSSON AND KALLAH TO BE  " LOVING  FRIENDS, "

( I know this from the relationship I had with my dear wife A.H. )

( AS RABBI SAMUEL WOSNER ZT'L SAID TO ME TILL YOU MAKE THIS BRACHO IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO BE LOVING FRIENDS

AS THIS BRACHO ASKS G-D TO PUT INSIDE YOU THIS FEELING OF LOVING FRIENDS IT IS NOT JUST A NATURAL INSTINCT )

THEY NEED TO HAVE THE CAPACITY TO BE ABLE TO SAY TO EACH OTHER

 " THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO DO IT; THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO ACT "

IF ONE IS DESERVING OF IT THE TYPE OF WIFE A PERSON WILL FIND WILL BE ONE WHO WILL BE A " RE'YAH AHUVA " ( A HELPMATE OPPOSITE HIM)  

MAY WE ALL MERIT HAVING SUCH TRUE FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN OURSELVES AND OUR COMPANIONS AND OURSELVES AND OUR SPOUSES. 

SHMIRUS HABRIS

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UMBEHOLFENERS

THE NESIVOS SHALOM WRITES,  THAT WE ARE UMBEHOLFENERS, AND THE UMBEHOLFENERS  HELFT DER AIBERSHTER.
TRANSLATION:
WHEN WE DO NOT SEE ANY HOPE, HASHEM HELPS THOSE WHO FEEL HELPLESS.

LOTS OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN TALKING TO ME ABOUT THE HELPLESS FEELING AND LOST THAT ONE GETS WHEN NO ONE WANTS TO HELP THEM GET THERE CHILDREN PLACED IN SCHOOLS.
THE EDUCATORS DO NOT CARE, THAT THEY ARE HARASSING PEOPLE.

THE TORAH ONLY SINGLES OUT THE WIDOW AND ORPHAN BECAUSE THEY ARE WEAK, AND PEOPLE HARASS THEM.

I BEG OF ANY WEAK PERSON WHO FEELS HARASSED THAT HIS CHILDREN ARE NOT ACCEPTED IN SCHOOLS PLEASE TURN TO PRAYER AND BE DEPENDENT ON HASHEM.

DO NOT DEGRADE YOURSELF BY BEGGING AGAIN AND AGAIN BY THESE RUTHLESS PEOPLE.
HOW CAN THESE EDUCATORS EXPECT THESE CHILDREN TO GROW UP WITH  KIBUD AV VE'EIM WHEN THEY SEE THE EDUCATORS AND TOWNS PEOPLE NOT RESPECTING THESE PARENTS.
PLEASE DO NOT RELAY ON PEOPLE BUT PRAY TO HASHEM AND HE WILL HELP.

AS GEMRA SAYS ( SHABBOS 133 ) BE SIMILAR TO HASHEM, AS HASHEM IS COMPASSIONATE, YOU SHOULD ALSO BE
ALL THE LAWS OF THE TORAH EXPRESS COMPASSION

AS IS WRITTEN IN TOSFOS ( ROSH HASHANAH 17 )
MY NATURE IS THAT I WILL LISTEN TO HIS SHOUTS, BECAUSE I AM COMPASSIONATE AND I CAN NOT BEAR HIS DISTRESS

BECAUSE HASHEM WANTS PEOPLE TO BE TRAINED AND ACCUSTOMED IN THE ATTRIBUTES OF KINDNESS AND COMPASSION.
WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO PUT OURSELVES IN OUR FRIENDS PLACE AND UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH.

WHAT IS A MIRACLE ?

WHEN A MIRACLE HAPPENS A PERSON SEES THE HAND OF G-D, IT IS A DEMONSTRATION THAT THIS WORLD AND ALL THE LAWS OF NATURE ARE JUST AN ILLUSION AND THAT HASHEM IS IN COMPLETE CONTROL.

IF I DID NOT GO TO A GARAGE TO FILL MY CAR WITH PETROL THAT I CAN DRIVE AROUND BUT INSTEAD I POURED IN TO THE PETROL TANK WATER AND DROVE AROUND.

WE WOULD SEE LIKE CHAZEL SAY THE ONE WHO SAYS OIL SHOULD BURN  CAN SAY WATER SHOULD BURN.

THAT IS THE WHOLE REASON RABBIS OF THE PAST DID MIRACLES COMPLETELY AGAINST NATURE TO BRING JEWS NEARER TO G-D.

WE CAN SEE HIS HAND CLEARLY AND THE TRUTH OF HIS PRESENCE IN THE WORLD.

LAST YEAR WHEN I LOST MY DEAR WIFE TIKWAH A.H. I TURNED TO BETTER PRAYER AND REALISED THAT ONLY PRAYER TO HASHEM CAN HELP ME A BIT TO OVER COME THIS SITUATION.

IN LAST WEEKS SEDRA IN THE TEN COMMANDMENT'S WE SEE THAT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE G-D WANTS IS RECOGNITION, THAT IT IS HIS WORLD

THE BIGGEST RECOGNITION A YID AND GOY CAN GIVE TO HASHEM IS PRAYER

THANKING HIM FOR THE PAST.

AND WHEN WE NEED SOMETHING PRAYING AND ASKING G-D FOR IT NOT THINKING MANKIND CAN HELP YOU

HARAV WEISS TO NICHOLS WINTON

The head of the Eida HaCharedis in Yerushalayim, HaRav Yitzchak Tuvia Weiss, also known as the Gavad (Gaon Av Bais Din) wrote a letter to family of Sir Nicholas Winton.
Sir Winton recently passed away at the age of 106 and made the news because he organized the rescue of 669 children destined for Nazi concentration camps.

Rav Weiss wrote this letter to let his family know what a profound effect Sir Winton had on his life and how grateful he is to him for having rescued him. The letter is transcribed below, followed by an image of the original:

I KNOW A MAN

I KNOW A MAN IN MANCHESTER WHO'S SOLE AIM IS TO SPREAD YIDISKITE
AND LISTEN TO PEOPLES  PROBLEMS AND THERE NOT SATISFACTION IN LIFE.

IN MANCHESTER I SEE LOTS OF BOYS AND GIRLS WHO GET REJECTED BY SCHOOLS AND THEN BY THE PARENTS WHO GROW IN TO REAL PROBLEM CASES.

THE YOUNGSTERS AND NO SO YOUNGSTERS NEED A GOOD EAR WHO WILL LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND THERE PROBLEM

THIS IS SOMETHING THE SCHOOL AND PARENTS DO NOT DO

SCHOOLS AND PARENTS THINK ALL CHILDREN ARE BORN WITHOUT DEFECTS
IN THERE CARICATURE AND BEHAVIOUR
MOST PEOPLE HAVE DEFECTS AND CAN BE HELPED WITH THE HELP OF SCHOOLS AND PARENTS  GROW UP  TO BE NICE PEOPLE
BUT THE SCHOOLS DO NOT HELP BY LABELLING THE CHILDREN AND GIVING THEM A BAD NAME.
THESE TEACHERS SHOULD NOT BE IN EDUCATION IF THEY HAVE NOT GOT A YIDDISH HEART TO LOVE AND UNDERSTAND A CHILD.

THE ROSH YESHIVA Z"L

I WAS LAST NIGHT  BY A DINNER AT THE ANNUAL REMEMBRANCE DAY OF THE MANCHESTER ROSH YESHIVA RABBI SEGAL ZT"L
WHO PASSED A WAY 23 YEARS AGO
THIS FINE HONEST MAN IN MY EYES HIS MERIT HAS BLESSED MANCHESTER A BACK WARD TOWN AS  THE GUEST SPEAKER DESCRIBED IT.
TO BE BLESSED THAT YIDISKITE AND TORAH HAS SPREAD TO BECOME THE NUMBER ONE TOWN IN BRITAIN TO DAY.

THE  MARVELLOUS GUEST  SPEAKER FROM NEW YORK , A CLOSE TALMID OF THE ROSH YESHIVA ZT"L.
HAGAON RAV YONASON TENDLER SHLITA"S WORDS
GAVE A FANTASTIC PICTURE OF THE ROSH YESHIVA LIFE AND THE TRUE HONEST PERSON HE WAS.

I WAS VERY SURPRISED AT THE LOW ATTENDANCE

SPECIALLY THE CHASIDIS CROWDS EACH ONE HAS THE SAME ATTITUDES AS THE LUBAVITCHER IF IT IS NOT ONE OF OUR OWN PEOPLE IS THE SPEAKER WE DO NOT GO.

I THINK THAT LUBAVITCHER ARE ONE OF THE GREATEST HINDRANCES THAT THE MESSIAH DOES NOT COME.

AS IS WRITTEN ONE OF THE SIGNS OF MESSIAH IS THAT WE ALL AGREE THAT HE IS THE MESSIAH.

BY THE LUBAVITCHER IT HAS GOT TO BE THE LAST REBBE SO IF HE IS NOT THE MESSIAH THEY WILL NOT AGREE TO GO.

I THINK UNITY BY THE JEWISH FRUM PEOPLE IS LACKING, THIS ONE DOES NOT GO WITH THAT ONE AND VICE VERSE.
IF WE WILL LEARN TO UNITE AND BE COME ONE I AM SURE IT WILL BRING NEARER THE DAYS OF THE MESSIAH.

WHAT DO YOU THINK ?

DO YOU THINK A PERSON WHO SAVED SO MANY JEWISH LIVES DURING THE WAR       ( INCLUDING  THE GAVAD OF YERUSALYIM  )
GETS NO REWARD IN OLAM HABA BECAUSE HE WAS BAPTISED BY HIS PARENTS
I DO NOT KNOW IF HE KNEW HE WAS A JEW  OR THE REASON HE DID THESE DEEDS
HAVE YOU SEEN THE LIST AND HOW MANY SHOMREA TORAH  THERE ARE ?

GAVAD OF YERUSALYIM AND NICLOS WINTON

CHILDREN SAVED

THE STORY OF SIR NICHOLAS WINTON
AND THE CHILDREN HE SAVED FROM THE NAZIS

I HAD HEARD OF THIS STORY  AND WHEN IT CAME UP ON BBC IPLAYER THOUGHT I MUST WATCH IT

I THINK IT IS A MUST FOR JEWS TO WATCH AND LEARN TO VALUE OF EVERY JEWISH CHILD

NICHOLAS WINTON  WAS BORN TO JEWISH BAVARIAN  PARENTS RUDOLPH AND BARBARA  WERTHEIMER ON 19 MAY 1909 IN WEST HAMPSTEAD ENGLAND
 AND BAPTISED AS A CHILD.
THE FAMILY HAD CONVERTED TO CHRISTIANITY
AND THE FAMILY NAME  ANGLICISED ONLY IN 1938

I DO NOT KNOW IF HE KNEW HE WAS JEWISH
BUT HIS INSTINCT FORCED HIM TO SAVE JEWISH CHILDREN
THE EDUCATORS OF LAKEWOOD AND NO LESS MANCHESTER AND LONDON  MUST KNOW EVERY JEW HAS A VALUE

PLEASE WATCH THE FILM SIR NICHOLAS WINTON
IF YOU DO NOT CRY BIG TEARS
THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU.