DOING CHESED

IT IS VERY SAD TO SEE SUCH A LOT OF YOUNG AVEILIM IN M.H. NEEDING TO DAVEN BY THE AMUD.
M.H. PRIDES ITSELF IN DOING CHESSED AND IN THAT MANCHESTER IS A TOWN OF CHESSED.
THAT IS WHY I AM SURPRISED WHEN ONE OF THE BIGGEST CHASSODIM A PERSON CAN DO IS WHEN ONE OF THESE AVEILIM WANTS TO SPLIT A MINYAN THAT HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO DAVEN BY THE AMUD, PEOPLE ARE RIDGED AND SNOBBISH WHEN IT COMES TO HELPING THIS PERSON.
(I DO NOT WANT TO MENTION NAMES BUT WILL DO SO, IF NECESSARY, IN MY NEXT LETTER)
THIS TOWN HAS LATELY SEEN A LOT OF TRAGEDY.
I THINK IT IS TIME WE PRACTISE A BIT OF CHESSED WITH THESE AVEILIM.
IT IS AN EASY CHESSED WHICH JUST REQUIRES LOWERING YOUR GAAVA.

MY DEAR DEAR WIFE O"H

TIKWAH LOCK O"H

NOT MANY PEOPLE LIVE WITH TRUE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER.b  1/4/1948  d 27/10/2014

BITOCHON AND HASHEM

THANK G=D AS I GET OLDER  I NEED MORE AND MORE BITOCHON IN THE RIBBONO SHEL OLAM IN LIFE ( That is what g=d wants from a person ).
IN MY YOUNGER YEARS YOU THINK I WANT TO MARRY RICH, THAT WILL GIVE ME  SECURITY.
I HAVE COME TO REALISE THAT G=D DOES NOT WANT A PERSON TO FEEL SECURE ON THIS WORLD.
THE ONLY SECURITY A PERSON HAS IS TO BELIEVE AND REALISE IN G=D AS IS WRITTEN:
 " O' ISRAEL TRUST IN HASHEM, THEIR HELP AND SHIELD IS HE. "
AS PEOPLE GET OLDER THEY WANT PERMANENCY WITH OUT PROBLEMS.
 BUT USUALLY G=D GIVES YOU PROBLEMS TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU WILL DEEPEND IN HIM ( These are all tests ).
LIFE AS WE KNOW IT HAS NO PEACE BUT ALWAYS FULL OF PROBLEMS.
IF YOU HAVE BITOCHON IN HASHEM YOU HAVE NO PROBLEMS.
SO REALLY THE ONLY PROBLEM WE HAVE IS TO HAVE BITOCHON.

JEWISH WOMAN'S DRESS

I WAS SURPRISED IN A " WRITE YOUR LINES' LETTER " IN LAST WEEKS UPDATE 4/9/2014.
 D.K. WRITES AS WE APPROACH THE HEILIGER TEIG DO YOU THINK IT IS BECHUVEDIG TO GO TO SHUL WEARING A WHITE TURBAN ?
WOULD YOU GO TO THE QUEEN WEARING A SHLUF TICHEL ?
HOW CAN WE LEHAVDIL GO TO SHUL AND BE MAMLICH THE MELECH MALCHI HAMLACHIM THIS WAY ! ! 
THE ANSWER IS SIMPLE.
 IF THEY CAN GO EVEN WORSE THE WHOLE OF SHABBOS,
I SEE THEM EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT ALL THAT IS MISSING IS TO BRING THERE BEDS AND HUSBAND INTO THE STREET.
WE SHOULD NOT BE SURPRISED WHEN SO MANY MARRIAGES BREAK DOWN.
 ALSO WHAT EDUCATION ARE THEY PASSING ON TO THE CHILDREN ?
THEY LOOK COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, EVEN WHEN GOING SHOPPING.

FATAL INCIDENT

Fatal Incident in Israel: Toddler Left in Veh TO HAVE MORE CHILDREN 

icle (11 opinions) SHOULD

Two-year-old Yoav Speigelman of Yahud died R”L after his mother forgot him in the car for 40 minutes on erev Shabbos 10 Elul. Doctors in Tel Hashomer Hospital fought to resuscitate the young child but their efforts were unsuccessful. The levaya for the toddler was held on Sunday, 12 Elul. A passerby saw an unconscious child in a parked vehicle on erev Shabbos. He smashed a window 

THIS MOTHER ( if she has other children) THEY SHOULD BE TAKEN AWAY FROM HER AS SHE IS NOT A RESPONSIBLE PERSON TO HAVE MORE CHILDREN.

IN MY EYES SHE IS A PROPER MURDERER, SHE LEFT A CHILD.

LOTS OF YOUNG COUPLES SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO HAVE CHILDREN. THE RABBONIM SHOULD ENFORCE A TEST ON EVERY CHOSEN AND KALLO IF THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE TO HAVE AND LOOK AFTER CHILDREN. 

 

THE MI-SHEBEIRACH

THIS IS A TRANSLATION OF THE NUSACH OF THE MI-SHEBEIRACH COMPOSED BY THE TOSAFOS YOM TOV.

( composed after the massacres of Tach v'Tut which the Tosafos Yom  tov said were caused by the prevalent habit of talking during davening ).

HE WHO BLESSED OUR FOREFATHERS, AVRAHAM, YITZCHAK, AND YAAKOV, MOSHE AND AHARON, DOVID AND SHLOMO.

HE WILL BLESS EVERYONE WHO GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE NOT TO SPEAK DURING DAVENING:

HAKADOSH BARUCH HU WILL GUARD HIM FROM ALL PAIN AND SUFFERING AND FROM ALL ILLNESS AND PLAGUE,  AND ALL THE BLESSINGS WRITTEN IN TORAS MOSHE RABBEINU AND THE NEVI'IM AND  KESUVIM  WILL APPLY TO HIM, AND HE WILL MERIT SEEING CHILDREN WHO ARE ALIVE AND WELL AND WILL RAISE THEM TO TORAH, CHUPPAH AND GOOD DEEDS, AND HE WILL SERVE HASHEM ELOKEINU ALWAYS WITH TRUTH AND COMPLETION, AND LET US SAY AMEN.

I HAVE TRIED THIS OUT AND DO NOT TALK BY DAVENING AND HAVE SEEN FANTASTIC HELP IN ALL MY ENDEAVOURS. 

EATING IN THE STREET

LATELY IT HAS BECOME VERY FASHIONABLE  FOR CHASSIDISHE MEN AND WOMEN TO EAT IN THE STREET.
THIS STARTS OF WITH PEOPLE FEEDING THEIR CHILDREN LIKE ANIMALS IN THE STREET, ESPECIALLY IN ERETZ YISROEL.
HAVE THEY NOT HEARD OF THE CHAZAL SAYING " EATING IN THE STREET MAKES YOU LIKE A DOG ".
I ASKED A WOMAN EATING THE STREET ( she must have been very frum as she did not go with a wig only a techiel ):
 " WHY DO YOU DO THIS ? HAVE YOU NOT HEARD OF THE WELL KNOWN CHAZA SAYING ??"
SHE ANSWERED ME " I AM LATE AND HAVE NO TIME TO EAT AT HOME ".
I TOLD HER I HAVE A BETTER WAY OF SAVING TIME, PUT A LITTLE TABLE IN YOUR TOILET AND EAT WHEN GOING TO THE TOILET YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DO TWO THINGS AT ONCE.
I AM NOT TALKING OF CHILDREN CARRYING FULL BAGS OF NASH ON SHABBOS TO SHUL. YOU ARE TRAINING THEM TO BE MECHALLEL SHABBOS.
WHEN THEY BECOME BIG THE PARENTS WONDER WHY DO MY CHILDREN STRAY FROM THE RIGHT PATH ? ?
I DO NOT LIKE TO GO SHOPPING WITH MY WIFE ESPECIALLY IN THE BIG SUPERMARKETS. 
I SEE LOTS OF PEOPLE EVEN MEN BUYING ( I look into their trolls ) THINGS WHICH THEY THINK IS KOSHER ( They have not got a good Jewish education ). 
I HAVE THE DILEMMA, IF I OPEN MY MOUTH MY WIFE GETS UPSET,
 ON THE OTHER HAND A YID HAS A DUTY TO SAY SOMETHING TO THIS PERSON. 

SMOKING & FACES FROM THE PAST

I ASKED A YUNGERMAN WHO WAS SMOKING WHY HE DID THIS UNHEALTHY THING.
  WHEN FOR THE LAST THIRTY YEARS ALL THE DOCTORS IN THE WORLD SAY THAT SMOKING IS THE BIGGEST CAUSE OF LUNG CANCER.
 ALL THE GEDOLIM SAY YOU MUST NOT SMOKE.
I CAN UNDERSTAND AN OLDER PERSON WHO STARTED YEARS AGO WHEN IT HAD NOT BEEN PROVED THE CONNECTION BETWEEN SMOKING AND CANCER.
ONE OF THE BOYS ANSWERED ME  " HE LIKES IT," SO THAT MEANS EVERYTHING IN LIFE ONE LIKES YOU DO ? ?  ( G=D HELP US ) 
I SAID TO HIM  " IF YOU HAD A SHIDUCH WITH A FANTASTIC GIRL THE ONLY PROBLEM WAS THAT SHE SMOKED " 
WOULD YOU DO THE SHIDUCH ? ? 
SO YOU DO NOT LOOK AT SMOKING AS GOOD. YOU JUST CAN NOT CONTROL YOURSELF.
HOW DO I KNOW THAT YOU CONTROL YOURSELF WITH OTHER THINGS ? ? ? 
IN THE JEWISH TRIBUNE EVERY WEEK WE HAVE A PAGE WHICH I AM TOLD EVERY  ONE ENJOYS IT IS " FACES FROM THE PAST " I REMEMBER WHEN THESE PHOTOS WERE TAKEN. IF YO WERE CAUGHT G-D HELP YOU AND THE CAMERAS WERE NOT SMALL .
IN THE BEIS YISROEL'S TIME THE NEW CASSETTE TAPE RECORDERS CAME OUT  AND SOMEONE RECORDED THE BEIS YISROEL, SAYING TORAH BY A TISH.
THE BEIS YISROEL WAS VERY ANGRY.
 THERE IS JUST A LITTLE FILM FROM THE BEIS YISROEL
I WAS NOT ABLE TO ASK HIM WHY HE WAS SO AGAINST IT ( I whould have loved to ) 
AS SO MANY YOUNGSTERS OF TO-DAY ENJOY SEEING THIS FILM.