MARRIAGE

WE, SPECIALLY THE ORTHODOX  JEWS IN STAMFORD HILL OR GOLDERS GREEN,

( THIS APPLIES TO ALL  GOYIM OR YIDEN )

DO NOT TEACH OUR  CHILDREN THE VALUES OF LIFE AND MARRIAGE.

HOW TO LIVE WITH A PARTNER AND LOVE EACH OTHER,

WHICH BRINGS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND HARMONY IN THE HOUSE,

WHICH IN TURN IS ALSO A GOOD EDUCATION FOR THE CHILDREN.

A HUSBAND'S JOB IS THAT HE LOVES HIS WIFE,

EVEN IF SHE IS NOT THE BEST ON THE BLOCK.

( SO THERE IS NO NEED TO TELL LIES AND HIDE BAD POINTS )

THIS IS THE ONE THAT G=D WANTS ME TO BUILD MY HOUSE WITH.

THE SAME GOES FOR THE WIFE.

 

I LOVE MY HUSBAND EVEN IF HE IS NOT THE BEST ON THE BLOCK

THAT G=D HAS BROUGHT US TOGETHER.

 ( THROUGH A SHIDDUCH OR FALLING IN LOVE )                                        

IS FROM HEAVEN AND IT COULD NOT HAVE BEEN DIFFERENT.

IF WE LOOK AT MARRIED LIFE WITH THESE SPIRITUAL EYES

THEIR WILL BE  TRUE LOVE AND HARMONY IN THE HOUSE.

IF THERE IS ALWAYS TRUTH BETWEEN YOU,

THEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS BLESSED WITH G=D'S NAME.

DO YOU HAVE FRIENDS

WHAT IS A GOOD FRIEND / WIFE/ OR EVEN PARTNER ?

IN TO-DAY'S WORLD WE MAKE FRIENDS,  GET MARRIED

AND WE THINK WE WILL STAY FRIENDS OR PARTNERS FOR EVER.

AS THE GOYSHE  MARRIAGE CEREMONY SAYS, FOR BETTER OR  FOR WORSE.

MY WIFE  ( PARTNER AND FRIEND ) STANDS BY ME FOR BETTER OR WORSE.

MY CHILDREN SEE THIS AND THANK G=D DO THE SAME.

BUT SO CALLED FRIENDS OF MINE AND MY WIFE OVER FIFTY YEARS

ARE NOT THE SAME.

 

AS SOON AS WE BECAME KNOWN THROUGH THE TELEVISION PROGRAM,

 " TWO JEWS ON A CRUISE",

THEY STOPPED TALKING TO MY WIFE AND TO ME.

IN ONE SYNAGOGUE WHEN THEY FOUND OUT WHO TOLD ME TO MAKE THE

PROGRAM THEY APOLOGISED AND STARTED TALKING TO ME.

BUT WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS WERE THEY IN THE FIRST PLACE ? ?

WHEN I SEE HOW PEOPLE  IN G.G. HENDON AREA TREATED THE HALPERNS

I FEEL THAT THERE IS NOT SUCH A THING AS A FRIEND.

ASK YOURSELF, ARE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE MY FRIENDS REALLY FRIENDS ? ? 

PESACH

LAST WEEKS' 7/3/2013 NEWSHEET WITH 164 PAGES

AND THE UPDATE WITH 110 PAGES.

THE ZEDOKA ADVERTS AND LETTERS SAY THERE ARE SO MANY

POOR PEOPLE IN OUR COMMUNITY.

WHO ARE THE ADVERTS IN THE NEWSHEET AND UPDATE AIMING AT ? ? ?

MOST OF THE THINGS YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT,EVEN FOR PESACH.

THESE ADVERTS ARE NOT CHEAP SO THERE MUST BE PEOPLE BUYING.

MY WIFE SAYS THAT MOST OF THE PEOPLE BUYING ARE THE POOR.

AS THEY HAVE NOT BEEN EDUCATED IN LIFE

THAT THEIR SITUATION IS A TEST IN LIFE IS FROM G=D.

THE POOR HAVE TO RECOGNISE THAT THEY ARE NOT WELL OFF,

AND NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF.

WE THE COMMUNITY HAVE TO MAKE SURE THEY GET WHAT THEY NEED

BUT DO THEY NEED ALL THE RUBBISH THAT IS ADVERTISED ? ? ?

THE BOTTOM LINE IS NO EDUCATION, SPECIALLY THE YOUNGSTERS.

GABY LOCK

MEIER HOCHHAUSER

THIS WEEK IS THE TENTH ANNIVERSARY OF THE PASSING

OF RABBI MEIER HOCHHAUSER Z.L.

HIS PASSION OF RECORDING EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED IN OUR TOWN

WAS THE MAKING OF THE " KOL MEVASSER " DAILY AND WEEKLY.

HE WAS THE CAUSE OF PEOPLE REMEMBERING HIM TO THIS VERY DAY.

I LIVED FOR THE FIRST FEW YEARS OF MY MARRIAGE

IN HIS PARENTS HOUSE 61 LORDSHIP PARK.

HE ALSO LIVED THERE AS HE WAS NOT VERY SUCCESSFUL IN MARRIAGE

AND LIVING WITH A PARTNER.
 

THIS CAME ABOUT AS PEOPLE DID NOT UNDERSTAND HIS VALUES OF LIFE.

HE WAS A VERY FRIENDLY PERSON AND LEARNED IN TORAH ETC, ETC,

BUT HAD NO FRIENDS OR RECOGNITION FROM PEOPLE.

BUT WHAT I LEARNED FROM HIM TO THIS VERY DAY IS

ALWAYS TO HAVE A FRIENDLY SMILE ON YOUR FACE.

I HAVE ALWAYS WONDERED IF GETTING RECOGNITION AFTER YOU HAVE PASSED ON

HELPS TO MAKE YOU FEEL YOUR LIFE WAS WORTH WHILE ? ?

JOY JOY JOY

I WAS READING THE AMAZING ARTICLE IN THE

HAMODIA 21 FEBRUARY 2013.

IT WAS ABOUT REB YISRAEL ( BRUDY ) STERN Z"L.

I WELL REMEMBER THE STORY OF HARAV ITZIKEL OF PSHEVORSK

AND THE PURIM RAV TISCH.

BRUDY STERN BROUGHT JOY TO HASHEM AND PEOPLE.

SPECIALLY WITH THE PURIM SHPIEL IN

THE STOKE NEWINGTON TOWN HALL.

MY WIFE WHO AT THAT TIME DID NOT UNDERSTAND YIDDISH WELL

SAID JUST TO SEE ALL THE PEOPLE LEAVING THE HALL HAPPY

WAS SOMETHING SHE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER.
 

WE ARE AGAIN REMINDED OF THE PURIM SHPIEL IN LAST WEEKS,

JEWISH TRIBUNE ARCHIVES 28 FEBRUARY 2013 .TO-DAY

THERE IS ALSO AN ORGANISATION THAT GOES IN BRUDY STERNS'

FOOTSTEPS, TRYING TO MAKE SICK PEOPLE HAPPY.

BUT WE ALL NEED A BIT OF A GOOD LAUGHTER ! !

I WRITE THESE WORDS TO THE ORGANISERS OF SHMYCHEL.

HARAV SHLOMO BAUMGARTEN ZT"L SAID

THERE ARE MANY SURVIVORS WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED THE TERRIBLE HOLOCAUST

AND ARE BROKEN AND SHATTERED .

THIS IS THE ONLY TIME OF THE YEAR THEY ACTUALLY LAUGH.

YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO STOP AND TAKE AWAY THIS BIT OF JOY

THAT THEY HAVE IN THEIR LIVES.

I ASK SHMYCHEL, PLEASE BRING BACK THE PURIM SHPIEL,

WE NEED IT ! !

GABY LOCK

NO NAME NO VALIDITY

IN LAST WEEKS UPDATE 28 FEBRUARY 2013

IN THE LETTER PAGE L HOCHHAUSER WROTE.

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THE UPDATE PUBLISHES

 LETTERS THAT HAVE NO NAME.

WHY ARE WE YIDDEN SO SCARED TO AIR OUR OPINION ?

I LOVE IT  WHEN SHE ( ? ) WRITES 

THAT SHE ( ? ) HAS NO EMBARRASSMENT.

SHE ( ? ) IS RIGHT TO BE QUITE FED UP WITH ALL OF 

YOU WRITING (  NO NAME ) TRYING TO TELL ME HOW TO 

RUN MY LIFE.

 

EVERYBODY IS ALLOWED TO DO WHATEVER THEY WISH

AND CAN EXPRESS MY OPINION.

SPECIALLY  WHEN I CAN PROVE THAT IT IS THE TORAH'S

OPINION.

I THINK THAT L HOCHHAUSER GOES OVERBOARD WITH PURIM.