KEDASSIA AND ME

I USED TO LEARN BECHAVRUSE WITH DAYAN  AHRON DOVID DUNNER. HIS WIFE ONCE CAME INTO THE ROOM AND ASKED FOR DISPENSATION ON A POINT OF HALACHA FOR  A LADY WHO WAS WAITING IN THE KITCHEN  FOR AN ANSWER. I SAID TO HER A ROV DOES NOT GIVE DISPENSATION.  A REBBE OR ROV IS ONLY AN INTERPRETER OF THE LAWS OF THE TORAH.  THE ROV RABBI E.PADWA EVEN SAID TO MY TWIN  BROTHER,   
"I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE YOU AND YOUR BROTHER HOROAH "   JUST TO SHOW PEOPLE HOW WELL YOU  YUNGRELEIT CAN LEARN. I ALSO USED TO LEARN WITH DAYAN D. GRYNHAUS BECHAVRUSE EVERY AFTERNOON FOR A FEW HOURS.

MY WIFE AND I ARE VERY DIFFERENT PEOPLE AS YOU CAN SEE FROM THE TELEVISION PROGRAM  " TWO JEWS ON A CRUISE " . OVER SEVENTEEN YEARS AGO,      WE DECIDED LETS GO TO THE JEWISH MARRIAGE COUNCIL IN HENDON WE WENT THERE FOR A FEW MONTH, WE SAW A LADY HALF FRUM HER NAME IS JANE DONY, SHE HAD NO IDEA WHAT SO EVER ABOUT COUNSELLING. SHE DID NOT UNDERSTAND THAT WE LIKE EACH OTHER BUT COULD NOT ALWAYS SEE EYE TO EYE AS WE ARE SO VERY DIFFERENT.  SHE EVEN SUGGESTED TO MY WIFE WE GET DIVORCED. ONCE OVER THE TELEPHONE SHE USED VERY BAD LANGUAGE TO ME, I GAVE HER BACK A FULL MOUTH OF BAD LANGUAGE ( NOT MY LANGUAGE BUT HERS ).

I DID NOT KNOW THAT SHE WAS RECORDING THIS, AS SHE KNEW FROM ME THAT I WAS LEARNING WITH DAYAN GRYNHAUS, SHE PLAYED HIM BACK ONLY MY ANSWER. DAYAN GRYNHHAUS BROKE OF THE CHAVRUSE , HE SAID HE CAN NOT LEARN WITH SOMEONE WHO USES BAD LANGUAGE. I SAID I ONLY USED THE BAD LANGUAGE SHE WAS USING TOWARDS ME.

IT SEEMS TO BE THAT PEOPLE THINK THAT I AM A FRIEND OF THE RABBONIM  AND KEDASSIA.  MY TWIN  AND ME WERE BORN 67 YEARS AGO TO MY FATHER Z.L. WHO WAS A SUCCESSFUL CATERER , MY MOTHER A.H. DIED STRAIGHT AWAY. I STILL REMEMBER WHEN BERGER AND FRESHWATER WERE VERY SMALL AND MOST OF THE RABBONIM  OF TODAY WERE NOT EVEN THOUGHT OF AS THEIR PARENTS WERE  BOCHRIM AND GIRLS.

AT THAT TIME THE KEDASSIA WAS RUN BY THE ESTEEMED DR SCHONFELD. DAYAN POSEN. RABBI SHLOMO BUMGARTEN. AS I SAID MY FATHER WAS A SUCCSESFUL CATERER UNDER THE KEDDASSIA. THESE RABBONIM DID NOT CARE THAT MY FATHER HAD  TO BRING UP  TWO LITTLE BOYS ON HIS OWN AND NEEDED THE MONEY FOR THAT. THEY SQUEEZED MY FATHER FOR MORE AND MORE MONEY, SO DON'T TELL ME ABOUT THE HONESTY OF THE RABONIM AND KEDDASIA. BUT I MUST SAY THERE IS A G=D IN HEAVEN WHO CARES. TRUTHFULNESS AND HONESTY ARE THE GROUND RULES OF YIDISHKEIT. YES G=D PAYS BACK BUT TO  ALL OF YOU AS WELL.