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Monday 26 November 2012

MARRIAGE

WE NEED TO RESTRUCTURE OUR ATTITUDE
TO WHEN BOYS AND GIRLS GET MARRIED. 
I AM TALKING ABOUT ORTHODOX FRUM JEWISH YOUNGSTERS.
A YID DOES NOT GET MARRIED THE SAME WAY THAT A GOY DOES,
BECAUSE HE OR SHE HAS CERTAIN DESIRES IN LIFE FOR  "LADIES AND GENTLEMEN".
BUT A YIDDSHE BOY AND GIRL GET MARRIED 
FOR PARTNERSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP IN LIFE, TO GET TO A HIGHER LEVEL.
THAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE AND LIVING TOGETHER
HAVING A HOUSE OF LOVE AND RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER.
THAT THEIR FUTURE CHILDREN SEE THIS AND LEARN.
 
IN EVERY MARRIAGE THERE IS " LADIES AND GENTLEMEN ".
BUT TO GET MARRIED FOR THAT PURPOSE ALONE IS NOT YIDISH,
IT WILL NOT PROTECT YOU FROM GOING THE WRONG WAY
AS THESE FEELINGS FALL AWAY AS YOU GET OLDER. 
SOMETIMES THEY DIE AWAY IN YOUR OLDER YEARS.
IF YOU HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT BY YOUR PARENTS AND RABBIS THIS
IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS,
YOU FIND LOTS OF OLDER AND EVEN YOUNG MARRIED COUPLES
WHO DO NOT GET ALONG. 
 THEY GET DIVORCED NOT JUST ONCE BUT TWICE OR EVEN MORE TIMES.
SEX IS NOT LOVE AND GIVING YOUR CHILD A PARTNER FOR THIS PURPOSE ALONE WILL NOT PROTECT THEM THAT THEY DO NOT WONDER.
 
WE INVOLVE RABBIS AND LAY LEADERS IN A JOB THAT IS NOT THEIRS.
PARENTS NEED TO SHOW THE CHILDREN HOW THEY LOVE AND CARE FOR EACH OTHER.
LOVE IS A PARTNERSHIP OF FRIENDSHIP AND CARING.
THEN B"H THEY WILL NOT HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THEIR CHILDREN.
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER IS:
WE DO THE SAME THINGS AS GOYIM,
BUT WE ARE YIDEN ! ! 
                                  GABY LOCK

Tuesday 13 November 2012

RELATIONSH​IPS

LIKE ONE HAND NEVER LIES TO THE OTHER.
THE SAME HAS TO BE WITH HUSBAND AND WIFE,
COMPLETE TRUST IN ONE ANOTHER.
AND DISCUSSING EVERYTHING WITH EACH OTHER
BRINGS TRUE LOVE
WHICH IS NOT FISICAL BUT MENTAL.
IT BRINGS TRUE LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER.
THEN YOU CAN LEARN TO LOVE G=D.
AS THE AIM OF LOVE IN THIS WORLD IS TO
LEARN TO LOVE G=D.